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		<title>May Update from Josh &amp; Chandra</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2009 19:58:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s been a few weeks since we&#8217;ve had a chance to post, but we can&#8217;t wait any longer to let you know what we&#8217;ve been up to. The past 6 weeks we have been secretly working on a brand new sister site to this one here on JoshAndChandra.com.  It&#8217;s a members only site, and dedicated [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s been a few weeks since we&#8217;ve had a chance to post, but we can&#8217;t wait any longer to let you know what we&#8217;ve been up to.</p>
<p>The past 6 weeks we have been secretly working on a brand new sister site to this one here on JoshAndChandra.com.  It&#8217;s a members only site, and dedicated exclusively for dancers who want the absolute best information available on becoming the Most Successful Dancer in their club.</p>
<p>No topic is taboo, no information is with-held, and nothing else out there compares to what we&#8217;ve compiled already.  And we&#8217;re not even finished building it yet!</p>
<p>So what <em>IS</em> in this members only site?  Well, to start with it&#8217;s not really just a membership site for dancers to gain knowledge.  It&#8217;s more like Stripper University.  We have created a Six Week Course detailing <strong>everything</strong> a dancer needs to know.  From how a strip club works, to building self-confidence techniques, to how to use technology today to better market yourself to potential customers.  We&#8217;ve covered How to effectively manage time in the club, what customers find attractive, and how to ask for that private dance the right way.</p>
<p>But that&#8217;s not even close to what we&#8217;ve created for you.  We also have the newest selling techniques based solely on the customer&#8217;s personality type.  We&#8217;ve broken it down into 4 diffferent categories for you to easily understand and even easier to recognize them when you see it.  This technique was first introduced by a famous psychologist whose work now heavily influences marketers and salesforces across the globe.  And we&#8217;re showing you how to use it for exotic dancing now.</p>
<p>But wait, there&#8217;s more.  We&#8217;ve included pages and pages of lessons on health, dieting, and exercise to keep you in shape (what&#8217;s school like without p.e. and health class, right?).  There&#8217;s also a dedicated section for finance and how can start putting your money to work for you.  We even show you some easy ways to start a business online.  Like we said, there&#8217;s no holding back in there.  And to prove it, we even go behind the scenes and break down how we generate income online; including the steps we took to create this new membership site and how you can do the exact same thing!</p>
<p>There&#8217;s still more.  We are partnering with a VERY well known pole dancing instrutor to bring you pole dancing instructional videos.  We can&#8217;t even tell you how excited we are about this.  We love pole dancing (if you can&#8217;t tell by our posts) and this new series of videos takes you through the steps to learn moves on the pole.</p>
<p>You see, what we&#8217;ve created is so unique, nothing can even begin to compare to it.  How do we know?  We checked.  We wanted to make this a true Stripper University.  We made sure we created the content to flow and build on each preceding lesson, just like it would in a real educational setting.</p>
<p>The other thing that makes this so unique, is that after you pay the membership fee, you are NOT billed any more.  There are other membership sites out there that make you pay month after month for the same content to belong to their site.  Not ours. </p>
<p>Even after you complete the 6 week training course (something else that makes ours different as you&#8217;ll know when you are done) you graduate and become an alumni.  All alumni are welcome to return and retake the course for free and to continue to post on the <em>member&#8217;s only forum</em>.</p>
<p>Really, we amazed ourselves with the quality and quantity of content that the new site contains.  If you took out all of the health and finance lessons and just left the dancer training, you would still have enough information to fill a 180 page book (at 12pt font, double spaced).  How do we know?  We checked it out ourselves.</p>
<p>Everything we offer is available from day one at no extra charge.  We don&#8217;t bill you for the finance information or how to start your own home based business.  You don&#8217;t pay a penny extra for the health and dieting courses.  It&#8217;s all at your disposal.  Always.</p>
<p>We have to apologize.  If you can&#8217;t tell, we are really excited about this.  There really isn&#8217;t anything like this anywhere.  We believe in truly offering the highest quality material and an unbelievably affordable price, and this new membership site isn&#8217;t any different.</p>
<p>So when can you sign up?  Good question, we knew you couldn&#8217;t wait for this part either.  We are looking to start the first 6 week course around July 1st.  That&#8217;s about a month away.  But there is some bad news.</p>
<p>We are only going to be offering registration for <strong>7 Days</strong>.  After the 7 days is up, we lock the doors.  But there is some good news, too.  We are offering our first training class a 50% discount to those who sign-up.  And you still receive lifetime membership for signing up.</p>
<p>If you are interested, fill out the preregistration box below.  This isn&#8217;t the official sign-up, so you aren&#8217;t obligated to pay or buy anything.  This is to keep you updated for when the doors open so you don&#8217;t miss out on this one-of-a-kind opportunity.</p>
<p>Oh, and one more thing.  We are offering a 100% money back guarantee.  If you don&#8217;t find our training course helpful or you feel like you didn&#8217;t learn anything, we will refund you 100% of your paid membership fee.  We have taken the risk out of joining for you.  Try and get that offer from ANY of the other dancer membership sites.  Oops, you can&#8217;t.</p>
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		<title>Dealing with Female Customers at Work</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2009 21:32:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This topic comes up more frequently depending on the club you are working at.  Some clubs are more strict on allowing female customers in, while some clubs impose zero restrictions.  Regardless, there seems to occasionally be a female customer or two that is rude and obnoxious to the dancers.  How you decide to deal with it, [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This topic comes up more frequently depending on the club you are working at.  Some clubs are more strict on allowing female customers in, while some clubs impose zero restrictions.  Regardless, there seems to occasionally be a female customer or two that is rude and obnoxious to the dancers.  How you decide to deal with it, will determine if you go home with all the money you should be.</p>
<p>When a rude female customer, or even group of them, is in the club, it can be EXTREMELY difficult to not walk over and lay one across the side of her head with your 7&#8243; heel, but you need to realize that won&#8217;t win you any more private dances.  Customers already know they are being rediculous, and they didn&#8217;t come to see you blow up on a girl patron.  The male customers came to see you and all the other dancers that are working that night.  So, carry on as business as usual as far as making your money.</p>
<p>However, DO say something to your bouncers and to the manager on duty.  Do NOT scream at them for letting it go on.  They might be oblivious to what&#8217;s going on (we know it&#8217;s hard to believe but not everyone is a master at observing what&#8217;s REALLY going on at the front lines).  Rather, let them know that the rude female customers are making it very hard for you AND the other girls to do your jobs, and that it is potentially causing the club to lose money as well.  When they hear it phrased in that fashion, they should take a stronger interest in taking care of the problem at hand and either tell the female custies to settle down or escort them out of the club.</p>
<p>After you&#8217;ve told the staff of the problem, go back to work.  You need to have some of the thickest skin around to even be in this business, and letting a couple or even a few rude customers, regardless of gender, ruin what could have potentially been a great night is unforgivable.  Continue doing what you are supposed to do and that&#8217;s sell dances.  Customers pay for expensive drinks and door fees just to be around you and to have fun with the strippers, not witness a brawl that should be televised on some low life reality show.  Be the bigger person overall, it makes you look soo much more appealing to the real customers, and they might buy more dances from you to help them escape the drama on the floor. </p>
<p>Female customers that are out of control need to be handled the same way you should be handling ANY negative influence in your life.  Find a way to eliminate it as quickly as possible.  Going over to the girl customers yourself will yield very little except for name calling, screaming, and possibly a fight.  You&#8217;ll get in trouble with management, and the real customers there won&#8217;t find you any more attractive then you were before the confrontation, more then likely they&#8217;ll stay away from you.  INSTEAD, go to the club staff that will rectify the situation ASAP.  Never add to a problem, just do what it takes to solve it immediately.</p>
<p>In the end though, we realize there are clubs that let things like this go on all the time.  If the club staff where you work does not help your situation out and make it the best work environment for you and the other dancers on a consistent basis, you probably should be looking for a different club to be working at anyway.  If you would like to learn more on how to bank every night at work, regardless of the problems that may arise, check out our new e-book package that will teach you how to confront and tackle any issue in the club and still walk home with wads of cash.  You can learn more <a href="http://joshandchandra.com/exoticad" target="_blank">HERE</a>.</p>
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		<title>Why Tipping the DJ Can Mean a Better Night at Work</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Feb 2009 09:52:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[For girls that work at clubs with dj&#8217;s announcing, you know that either he can be a great guy or a real asshole.  You also may wonder why you tip him out every night, along with the countless other employess at the club, when he&#8217;s there just doing his job like you.  However, have you [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For girls that work at clubs with dj&#8217;s announcing, you know that either he can be a great guy or a real asshole.  You also may wonder why you tip him out every night, along with the countless other employess at the club, when he&#8217;s there just doing his job like you.  However, have you ever thought about the fact that HE (or she as the case may be) also has the ability to help you make your first impression on customers?</p>
<p>When you go up on stage, the dj will announce your name and likely who follows you, along with the nights special and blah, blah, blah.  But during the time he is announcing your name, he has the ability to talk you up quite a great deal with only a few words.  And he knows how do it, very well.  Going up to him a couple songs before hand and tipping him a $5 or something, and asking him to spice up your intro a little, will work wonders for your stage set.  Having him announce you in a completely different fashion from the other girls will set you apart, and customers will remember you.  They will also be intrigued by what you possibly have to offer that the dj would make a point to say something out of the ordinary about you.  Just try it a couple times and see if it makes a difference for you.</p>
<p>Also, cocking off to the dj or being a bitch to him will NOT get you anywhere.  Yes we understand that some dj&#8217;s out there can be out for other things then making money, but making an enemy with the dj can lead to curt intro&#8217;s and him playing you some screwed up song sets.  In general, it&#8217;s best to get along great with all of the employees as they are there to help you make money just as you are there to help them in some fashion or another.</p>
<p>To learn other tips and how to make more money at the club, check out our special new e-book package called &#8220;The Exotic Dancer Ultimate E-Book Package&#8221; which has helped many girls double and even triple what they used to make in only a few short weeks time by following the methods outlined in the 3 part set.  To learn more, click <a href="http://joshandchandra.com/exoticad" target="_blank">HERE</a>.</p>
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		<title>This is How to Still Bank on Slow Nights</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Monday and Tuesday this week was DEAD at the club I&#8217;ve been working at the last few months.  Like the slowest I&#8217;ve yet to ever see it.  However, I still walked out with a little over $250 each night.  This is one of the lowest amounts I&#8217;ve taken home from this club, BUT more then [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Monday and Tuesday this week was DEAD at the club I&#8217;ve been working at the last few months.  Like the slowest I&#8217;ve yet to ever see it.  However, I still walked out with a little over $250 each night.  This is one of the lowest amounts I&#8217;ve taken home from this club, BUT more then a few of the girls took home around $50 for a full nights work.  That&#8217;s HORRIBLE!  If there is one lesson here, it is to KEEP HUSTLING.  Even when it&#8217;s dead, there are still customers there.  If all the customers there are already talking to girls, remember the ones who tip you well on stage.  Then when that girl goes up on stage go over and sit with that customer(s) who was tipping you well.  Focus on selling them dances, but remember you can&#8217;t just go up and starting asking to head back to the couch room.  You have to &#8220;sell&#8221; them first.</p>
<p>All of the selling strategies I and my closest friends use, I go into detail in our e-books &#8220;How to Make More Money in the Gentlemen&#8217;s Club V2.0&#8243; and our newest one &#8220;The Successful Stripper.&#8221;  You should never walk up to a customer and ask &#8220;Do you wanna dance?&#8221;, ESPECIALLY when it is slow.  You have the perfect opportunity on slow nights to turn a couple customers into your nite&#8217;s paycheck.  If you would like to learn more on how you can learn to bring home bank on even the slowest of night&#8217;s, check out our new package e-book deal.  You get both of our dancer e-books plus our dieting e-book for only $19.97.  A great and small investment considering the return you will get when you begin applying all the techniques found in our products.  To read more, visit <a href="http://joshandchandra.com/exoticad" target="_blank">here</a>.  To order, click <a href="http://joshandchandra.com/shop/index.php?main_page=product_info&amp;cPath=1&amp;products_id=7" target="_blank">here</a>.</p>
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		<title>2009 &#8211; What Goals Have You Set for Yourself?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s a brand new year.  And with a new year usually comes new year resolutions.  While it seems a bit cliche or boring, it is an important facet of trying to make sure this year is better then the last.  Here are couple things we think you should consider for your new year resolutions if [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s a brand new year.  And with a new year usually comes new year resolutions.  While it seems a bit cliche or boring, it is an important facet of trying to make sure this year is better then the last.  Here are couple things we think you should consider for your new year resolutions if you haven&#8217;t done so yet.</p>
<p>1.  Get in Shape.  This is a common one for many folks around the new year.  And there isn&#8217;t anything wrong with that.  Especially in the business of Exotic Dancing, since a trimmer waistline can equate to a higher income.  Whether you decide to start hitting the gym, or starting eating less junk food, a commitment to living healthier is a win-win situation no matter how you look at it.</p>
<p>2.  Read More.  While this sounds boring and maybe even a waste of time, what you read can actually improve how much you make every night at work.  Learning new sales techniques or how to be a better saleswoman can greatly boost your income, and help you with the third recommendation below.</p>
<p>3.  Start Paying off Debts.  With the economy in the toilet right now, and customers in the club spending less, there are ways to improve your financial situation RIGHT NOW!  They include paying off high interest credit card debts and putting the rest away in a savings account or investing it.  One way that paying off credit card debts actually gives you more spending money is that once it is paid off, you no longer have monthly payments that you have to budget for.  If you&#8217;re paying $400 a month in payments to your credit card company, you might be working one or two nights a month just to pay for your credit card bill.  When you no longer have any credit card payments, you immediately have that $400 to do with as you please, every single month after your card is paid off.  We understand that you may have more credit card debt then the example above, but paying more then the minimum amount due every month brings you much closer to the day that you are debt free, and also will lower your minimum monthly payment.</p>
<p>4.  Start Saving More.  After you&#8217;ve paid off high interest debts, or while you doing so, you should set aside an amount that you will set aside and either put into a savings account or an investment account.  You don&#8217;t have to save or invest thousands of dollars a month to get started.  Putting aside $10 or $20 a night, or $50 a week, and putting it into some type of saving or investing account where it is not easily accessible or spent when you have the urge to buy those new $300 pair of boots and gives you a chance to start building something that can be put to work FOR YOU! </p>
<p>5.  Buy Something Big.  Now this sounds like it goes against the last two resolutions we just mentioned, but becoming a financial hermit isn&#8217;t fun and what&#8217;s the use of saving if you don&#8217;t ever seem to get anything from it?  With this resolution, think of something you&#8217;ve really wanted for awhile but haven&#8217;t been able to afford.  Now, with the price of that item in mind, think of what you could set aside every week or month to actually buy that item say 6 or 9 months from now.  If it&#8217;s a big flat screen t.v., you might need to put away $50 a week for six months.  But, with the prices of many electronic items falling, you might be able to buy the one you want much sooner or even a better or bigger model then the one you&#8217;ve been eyeballing for awhile.  The main thing is, plan for the purchase and pay for it in cash.  Don&#8217;t finance it.  And after you&#8217;ve gotten what you&#8217;ve wanted for so long, you&#8217;ll feel a sense of accomplishment and achievement that you&#8217;re hard work and savings has paid off.  It&#8217;s a great incentive to do more of the same in the future.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;ve already made new year resolutions, great.  But if you haven&#8217;t, it&#8217;s still not too late to get started on a couple or even all of the one&#8217;s mentioned here if you are having a hard time coming up with some of your own <img src='http://thesuccessfulstripper.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>The Best of 2008 From JoshAndChandra.com</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Dec 2008 07:00:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[2008 was an interesting year for everyone.  The housing and financial markets imploded, the first black president was elected in the United States, gas prices plummeted from their high, the first &#8220;pregnant man&#8221;, and JoshAndChandra.com went live to help all Exotic Dancers make money.  While some of these things are irrelevant, we think we mentioned [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>2008 was an interesting year for everyone.  The housing and financial markets imploded, the first black president was elected in the United States, gas prices plummeted from their high, the first &#8220;pregnant man&#8221;, and JoshAndChandra.com went live to help all Exotic Dancers make money.  While some of these things are irrelevant, we think we mentioned the best last (ok gas being less then half of what it was is freakin amazing).  So to commemorate JoshAndChandra&#8217;s first year in existance, we are going to list the top 10 most read posts here on our blog.  We hope you enjoy them the second time around as much as you did the first time you read them.  <img src='http://thesuccessfulstripper.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><strong>10.  Excerpt from “How to Make Money at the Gentlemen’s Club” &#8211; Part 3 -</strong></p>
<p>Yesterday we took a look at a bit of Chapter 6 in section 2 titled, “How to Lead the Customer to a Sale”.   Today we look at a portion of Chapter 1 Section 3, “Saving Your Money”.</p>
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<p align="left">Do you find that you are short money all the time even though you go home with lots of it every night after work?  Do you struggle to pay your bills on time because you don’t have enough saved at the time?  If so you are not alone in this country.  Most households in America struggle to keep up with their obligations.  They either borrow too much or they have a serious problem saving what they make.  This section will cover how you can learn to save at least some of what you make.  <em><a href="http://joshandchandra.com/2008/04/excerpt-from-%e2%80%9chow-to-make-money-at-the-gentlemen%e2%80%99s-club%e2%80%9d-part-2/" target="_blank">To Read More Click Here&#8230;</a></em></p>
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<p><strong>9.</strong>   <strong>How to Get Started in Exotic Dancing -</strong></p>
<p>There are MANY things you will need and must prepare for before beginning a career in exotic dancing.  The first at foremost thing to consider is if this is what you want to do for a career choice.  It can be a very expensive one for you, if you do not take into consideration what goes into dancing.  Dancers clothes and shoes are not cheap, and if you do not buy good quality items, you will be replacing them more often then you should.  But before we go more in depth in that area, stop by a local club or two that you’ve heard good things about, and see what takes place there.  <a href="http://joshandchandra.com/2008/02/how-to-get-started-in-exotic-dancing/" target="_blank"><em>To Read More Click Here&#8230;</em></a></p>
<p><strong>8.</strong>  <strong>The single biggest thing standing between you and success in Stripping is… -</strong></p>
<p>Do you ever wonder what stands in the way of you and success at work.  There are other girls at work that make it seem so easy and get tons of dances with customers.  They consistantly go home with large sums of cash all the time.  What’s stopping you from going home everynite with buckets of money?  The answer is YOU.</p>
<p>At the end of the day, you are the only thing standing between you and success.  Success and winning is an attitudeSuccess isn’t measured in money, power, or cars.  Success is a  frame of mind, so much that if you think about this scenario you’ll understand why.  <a href="http://joshandchandra.com/2008/03/the-single-biggest-thing-standing-between-you-and-success-in-stripping-is/" target="_blank"><em>To Read More Click Here&#8230;</em></a></p>
<p><strong>7.</strong>  <strong>Exotic Dancer E-BOOKS! -</strong></p>
<p>JoshAndChandra.com now has two e-book resources for helping Exotic Dancers in their profession.  Our first e-book is titled “How to Make More Money in the Gentlemen’s Club” and the second one is titled the “The Successful Stripper.”  Both e-books cover completely different material as far as how to make money approach customers, be a top earner, and ultimately how to manage your incomeNow for the first time ever, you can own both of these e-books for the price of one!</p>
<p>When you order “The Successful Stripper,” you will also receive a free copy of “How to Make More Money in the Gentlemen’s Club.” <a href="http://joshandchandra.com/exotic-dancing-ebook/" target="_blank"><em>To Read More Click Here&#8230;</em></a></p>
<p><strong>6.</strong>  <strong>Excert From Our Hot Selling E-Book “How to Make Money at the Gentlemen’s Club!” &#8211; Part 1</strong></p>
<p>This week only, we are running brief excerts from our E-Book titled “How to Make Money at the Gentlemen’s Club.”  Also this week we will be offering the for only $19.97, a savings of over $30 from the full retail price.  Thi offer ends Saturday, April 19 at midnite.  If you like what you read, please consider ordering the entire book as it is packed full of knowledge that can benefit the dancer just starting or the 10 year vet looking to make even more bank.  But enough of that, here’s a brief portion of chapter 3, “Reasons Customers Choose Certain Girls”</p>
<p>1.   Attraction. Attraction comes from many factors. Skin color, Hair color, hair length, Height, Weight, Clothing. About as many factors that are unchangeable at any given moment, there are those things that are changeable. What you wear, how you do your hair, makeup, and how you smell, are all things that influence those around you and are things you decide on.  <a href="http://joshandchandra.com/2008/04/excert-from-our-hot-selling-e-book-how-to-make-money-at-the-gentlemens-club-part-1/" target="_blank"><em>To Read More Click Here&#8230;</em></a></p>
<p><strong>5.  One of the Biggest Money Makers for Any Dancer, Including You -</strong></p>
<p>Paging thru a recent magazine, I was reminded of a great sales technique that fits in perfectly with the dancing profession.  It’s something that anyone from the Veteran dancer to the girl who just tried on her first pair of stilleto’s can incorporate.  And unlike a new costume or a new fragrance, it won’t cost you a dime.  Here’s what it is.</p>
<p>First, think about what all the great money makers in this profession have posessed that you’ve ever come into contact with.  If you’re coming up blank, I’ll help you out.  <a href="http://joshandchandra.com/2008/08/one-of-the-biggest-money-makers-for-any-dancer-including-you/" target="_blank"><em>To Read More Click Here&#8230;</em></a></p>
<p><strong>4.  Making Money as an Exotic Dancer During a Recession -</strong></p>
<p>Times are tough out there right now for everyone.  The stock markets in the toilet, unemployment is the highest it’s been in years, and there are less customers walking thru the doors of the clubs.  But that doesn’t mean there still isn’t money to be made being a dancer.  Our ebook “<a href="http://joshandchandra.com/ExoticAd.html" target="_blank"><strong><span style="color: #327eb0;">How to Make More Money at the Gentlemen’s Club</span></strong></a>” is just what you need to boost your earning potential even during tough times.  Click the link to read more and start making what you never thought was possible. </p>
<p><strong>3.  Top 10 Mistakes All Strippers Make -</strong></p>
<p>There are certain things all dancers do wrong, whether it is only one from this list or many, it can impact how much you make a nite, or over the course of the week.  If you can eliminate all of these things on this list, you will be ahead of your peers, and will be on your way to making more money.</p>
<p>1.  <strong>Thinking every girl is going to be your friend</strong>.  In this business you learn that the only person you can trust 100% is yourself.  If everyone thinks you are ignorant and trusting, they will take advantage of you and take everything they can from you.  <a href="http://joshandchandra.com/2008/02/top-10-mistakes-all-strippers-make/" target="_blank"><em>To Read More Click Here&#8230;</em></a></p>
<p><strong>2.  5 Habits of Highly Successful Exotic Dancers -</strong></p>
<p>Here are 5 qualities that are ALL shared by successful dancers.  If you can incorporate these habits into your lifestyle and work ethic, you will be joining the elite of the elite.  Your income will increase dramatically.  And your perspective about life itself will change.  It will take a bit of work to integrate these traits into your life but you will be well rewarded by doing so.</p>
<p>1.  Be Proactive!  Being proactive is one of two responses to any given situation.  You can be proactive or reactive.   <a href="http://joshandchandra.com/2008/03/5-habits-of-highly-successful-exotic-dancers/" target="_blank"><em>To Read More Click Here&#8230;</em></a></p>
<p><strong>And the #1 post is:</strong></p>
<p><strong>How to Be a Successful Stripper or Exotic Dancer</strong></p>
<p>With this first post we are going to analyze what it takes to not only just be an exotic dancer but a very successful one at that.  There are many things that aren’t apparant for most when they start in this business and many girls who have been dancing for years still are missing out on making even more money by not fully looking at all the elements it takes to be the best they can be.  We are going to cover everything we can, day by day, because this isn’t something learned in one sitting.  It takes practice, patience, studying (others) and learning from someone who’s successfully mastered this business for years.  <a href="http://joshandchandra.com/2008/02/how-to-be-a-successful-stripper-or-exotic-dancer/" target="_blank"><em>To Read More Click Here&#8230;</em></a></p>
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<p>And that&#8217;s the top 10 most viewed posts on JoshAndChandra.com for 2008.  We hope you have learned a lot from our site and hope you have been equally profitable from doing so.  We wish you prosperous 2009 and hope you continue to visit us for even more knowledge on how you can be the Elite Dancer we know you can be!</p>
<p>Josh &amp; Chandra</p>
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		<title>Self Confidence: Do You Have It?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of the keys to successful selling is self-confidence. You have to believe in quite a few things in order for the customer to be &#8220;sold&#8221; on whatever it is you are selling. You have to believe in the product, the value it offers, and even more, you have to believe in yourself. When you [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the keys to successful selling is self-confidence. You have to believe in quite a few things in order for the customer to be &#8220;sold&#8221; on whatever it is you are selling. You have to believe in the product, the value it offers, and even more, you have to believe in yourself. When you are missing one of those three pieces, you will have a tough time making consistent and frequent sales.</p>
<p>Selling dances to customers involves a great deal of convincing sometimes; but before you even start trying to convince the customer of anything, let&#8217;s check and see if YOU are convinced of everything.  First off, you really do have to believe in what you are doing.  If you don&#8217;t want to be at work, feel guilty, or are there just for a good time, you don&#8217;t have what it takes and you do NOT believe in what you do. </p>
<p>Next, you need to believe in yourself in a variety of ways.  If you are constantly asking questions like &#8220;Am I too fat?&#8221; or &#8220;Am I too old?&#8221; then you probably don&#8217;t have what it takes to confidently go ask a stranger for their money.</p>
<p>The other way you need to believe in yourself is your abilities.  As the old high school gym motto goes, &#8220;If you think you can&#8217;t, you&#8217;re right!&#8221;  As corny as it seems, it is filled with truth.  You do need to fully believe in your capabilities and what you can accomplish.  You must realize you CAN do whatever you set your mind too.  It likely will not happen overnight, but with practice and perseverence, you do have the opportunity to achieve success.</p>
<p>Ultimately, self confidence &#8211; belief in yourself and what you do &#8211; is what determines where you end up in life.  Don&#8217;t think you&#8217;ll amount to much or think you&#8217;re not worth much?  If you do, you will sabotage your own future to fulfill you&#8217;re current outlook of yourself.  But if you think you are worth a million bucks, you&#8217;ll start dressing like it and figuring out exactly how you can be worth a million dollars.  Confidence is key. </p>
<p>You can find other great money making ideas like this in our new e-book <a href="http://joshandchandra.com/products-page/" target="_blank"><strong><span style="color: #327eb0;">The Successful Stripper</span></strong></a>, on sale now and available for immediate download after purchase.  We’ve created a 37 page book jam packed with info on how you too can become a top earning Successful Stripper.  You can read more about our new e-book <a href="http://joshandchandra.com/products-page/" target="_blank"><strong><span style="color: #327eb0;">here</span></strong></a>.</p>
<p>Also, as an added bonus for new readers, we are including a free copy of our original e-book “How to Make More Money in the Gentlemen’s Club” with the purchase of <a href="http://joshandchandra.cerizmo.com/items/3462-the-successful-stripper-e-book" target="_blank"><strong><span style="color: #327eb0;">The Successful Stripper</span></strong></a>.  You will be provided a link to download our 40+ page guide on how you too can learn the ways to banking in any Gentlemen’s club around the world.  And you receive it for Free with your paid download of <a href="http://joshandchandra.cerizmo.com/items/3462-the-successful-stripper-e-book" target="_blank"><strong><span style="color: #327eb0;">The Successful Stripper</span></strong></a>.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[These are the top 3 things that i see girls do at work that you should NEVER, EVER do Number 1: Never fall for a line of bullshit that a customers spits at you.  No matter what they say they will give, what they&#8217;ll do for you, or how gorgeous you are, don&#8217;t listen.  All they [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>These are the top 3 things that i see girls do at work that you should NEVER, EVER do</p>
<p>Number 1: Never fall for a line of bullshit that a customers spits at you.  No matter what they say they will give, what they&#8217;ll do for you, or how gorgeous you are, don&#8217;t listen.  All they are doing is wasting your time.  They only want to get in your pants or they are a cop trying to get you for prostitution. They will say anything to get your time for free.  That has been my number one rule all the years I&#8217;ve danced. It&#8217;s never steered me wrong.</p>
<p>Number 2: Do not sell pussy in the club. EVER! What you do on your own time is your business, but if you want to keep your job and your work friends, don&#8217;t do it. It&#8217;s illegal, it&#8217;s morally wrong and it&#8217;s disgusting. Sure, it&#8217;s alot of money, but are the STD&#8217;s, possible pregancies, and jail time worth it?</p>
<p>Number 3: Always get your money before you start the dance. This prevents you from getting done with the dance and having a guy tell you he doesn&#8217;t have any money. You always want to get paid for the dance and it&#8217;s just easier and safer if you get it out of the way first. Don&#8217;t give anyone discounts either. Then they will expect it everytime.</p>
<p>These are the top 3 things that you should always remember when going to work and during work. They will help you immensly. Thanks.</p>
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<p>Also, as an added bonus for new readers, we are including a free copy of our original e-book “How to Make More Money in the Gentlemen’s Club” with the purchase of <a href="http://joshandchandra.com/shop/index.php?main_page=product_info&amp;cPath=1&amp;products_id=2" target="_blank"><strong><span style="color: #327eb0;">The Successful Stripper</span></strong></a>.  You will be provided a link to download our 40+ page guide on how you too can learn the ways to banking in any Gentlemen’s club around the world.  And you receive it for Free with your paid download of <a href="http://joshandchandra.com/shop/index.php?main_page=product_info&amp;cPath=1&amp;products_id=2" target="_blank"><strong><span style="color: #327eb0;">The Successful Stripper</span></strong></a>.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Originally posted by the Republican-American on September 3rd, 2008 and can be found here: http://rep-am.com/articles/2008/09/03/news/363236.txt Exotic dancer found unconscious in Waterbury bar dies  WATERBURY — A 21-year-old exotic dancer found unconscious in a bathroom Saturday night at Mr. Happy&#8217;s Cafe, a strip club on Homer Street, died Sunday at Waterbury Hospital, police said. According to [...]
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<p><span class="headline"><strong>Exotic dancer found unconscious in Waterbury bar dies</strong> </span></p>
<div id="storydetail">WATERBURY — A 21-year-old exotic dancer found unconscious in a bathroom Saturday night at Mr. Happy&#8217;s Cafe, a strip club on Homer Street, died Sunday at Waterbury Hospital, police said.</div>
<p>According to Lt. Christopher Corbett, a police spokesman, the woman is a city resident, but he declined to release her name until an autopsy can be completed. The procedure is scheduled for today.</p>
<p>An employee at the club found the woman unconscious, but breathing at about 10:30 p.m., Corbett said. There are no signs of foul play in connection with her death, he added.</p>
<p>&#8220;We are investigating the possibility it was a drug overdose,&#8221; he said.</p>
<p>The woman was hospitalized Saturday after she was found in the bathroom, but died Sunday, he said. Family members have been notified of her death.</p>
<p>The club has been the scene of police and fire calls, including two small fires in 2005 and 2006 that sent customers and scantily clad women into the parking lot.</p>
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<div>It&#8217;s simply not worth the price that some like this fellow young lady paid.  Take care of yourself and each other out there.</div>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lol this is something new to me but obviously has been around for awhile.  A friend showed this to me last nite and I thought it was hilarious.  There is a website that specializes in breaking bad news to people who just can&#8217;t quite take a hint that you don&#8217;t want them to have your real phone number.  They have set up multiple numbers, at least one in almost everystate, that has a voice recording that the person calling reaches, informing them of their misfortune.  There are too many numbers to list and they have different categories for people, ranging from the rejection hotline, to informing the caller of their bad breath or dental dilemma .  The website is <a href="http://www.rejectionhotline.com/">http://www.rejectionhotline.com</a> and you can search for numbers to match your local calling area to make it appear more realistic.  Check it out and use it on the next moron in the club that insists on getting your digits so you can &#8220;hook up&#8221; later.</p>
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