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When a rude female customer, or even group of them, is in the club, it can be EXTREMELY difficult to not walk over and lay one across the side of her head with your 7″ heel, but you need to realize that won’t win you any more private dances.  Customers already know they are being rediculous, and they didn’t come to see you blow up on a girl patron.  The male customers came to see you and all the other dancers that are working that night.  So, carry on as business as usual as far as making your money.

However, DO say something to your bouncers and to the manager on duty.  Do NOT scream at them for letting it go on.  They might be oblivious to what’s going on (we know it’s hard to believe but not everyone is a master at observing what’s REALLY going on at the front lines).  Rather, let them know that the rude female customers are making it very hard for you AND the other girls to do your jobs, and that it is potentially causing the club to lose money as well.  When they hear it phrased in that fashion, they should take a stronger interest in taking care of the problem at hand and either tell the female custies to settle down or escort them out of the club.

After you’ve told the staff of the problem, go back to work.  You need to have some of the thickest skin around to even be in this business, and letting a couple or even a few rude customers, regardless of gender, ruin what could have potentially been a great night is unforgivable.  Continue doing what you are supposed to do and that’s sell dances.  Customers pay for expensive drinks and door fees just to be around you and to have fun with the strippers, not witness a brawl that should be televised on some low life reality show.  Be the bigger person overall, it makes you look soo much more appealing to the real customers, and they might buy more dances from you to help them escape the drama on the floor. 

Female customers that are out of control need to be handled the same way you should be handling ANY negative influence in your life.  Find a way to eliminate it as quickly as possible.  Going over to the girl customers yourself will yield very little except for name calling, screaming, and possibly a fight.  You’ll get in trouble with management, and the real customers there won’t find you any more attractive then you were before the confrontation, more then likely they’ll stay away from you.  INSTEAD, go to the club staff that will rectify the situation ASAP.  Never add to a problem, just do what it takes to solve it immediately.

In the end though, we realize there are clubs that let things like this go on all the time.  If the club staff where you work does not help your situation out and make it the best work environment for you and the other dancers on a consistent basis, you probably should be looking for a different club to be working at anyway.  If you would like to learn more on how to bank every night at work, regardless of the problems that may arise, check out our new e-book package that will teach you how to confront and tackle any issue in the club and still walk home with wads of cash.  You can learn more HERE.

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When you go up on stage, the dj will announce your name and likely who follows you, along with the nights special and blah, blah, blah.  But during the time he is announcing your name, he has the ability to talk you up quite a great deal with only a few words.  And he knows how do it, very well.  Going up to him a couple songs before hand and tipping him a $5 or something, and asking him to spice up your intro a little, will work wonders for your stage set.  Having him announce you in a completely different fashion from the other girls will set you apart, and customers will remember you.  They will also be intrigued by what you possibly have to offer that the dj would make a point to say something out of the ordinary about you.  Just try it a couple times and see if it makes a difference for you.

Also, cocking off to the dj or being a bitch to him will NOT get you anywhere.  Yes we understand that some dj’s out there can be out for other things then making money, but making an enemy with the dj can lead to curt intro’s and him playing you some screwed up song sets.  In general, it’s best to get along great with all of the employees as they are there to help you make money just as you are there to help them in some fashion or another.

To learn other tips and how to make more money at the club, check out our special new e-book package called “The Exotic Dancer Ultimate E-Book Package” which has helped many girls double and even triple what they used to make in only a few short weeks time by following the methods outlined in the 3 part set.  To learn more, click HERE.

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First, there’s two words in the phrase “Successful Stripper.”  The first one is “successful.”  What makes someone a success?  Like we mentioned above, is it having lots of material things?  Or is it something different?  That’s something everyone has to determine for themselves, but we can tell you what it means to us.  Someone who is a success has mastered or accomplished something.  The things a stripper can accomplish are numerous, but some of the more difficult things to master is making a lot of money on a consistent basis, finding balance between work and their personal life, and staying focused on why they go to work and what they are there to do when they get there.  This criteria doesn’t necessarily apply to just exotic dancers, those qualities are great to have no matter what profession you are in.  There are several things that could fall into the category of being successful, but in the stripping business, it can be very easy to be led astray.  Staying the course in itself could be considered being successful for a dancer. 

The other part of the term we are looking at is the word “Stripper.”  We look at this point specifically because we wanted to make the note that you are a stripper at work.  It is NOT what defines you outside of work, although some parts of society may try and classify you otherwise.  Keep your integrity outside of work by being yourself.  Don’t do things outside of work because some of your co-workers are doing it, or because you think you are less then the average person because of your occupation.  You are a person.  The stigma of being a dancer can be very unfair, but that doesn’t mean you should conform to what others would expect of a stripper outside of work.  You don’t need to dress provacative if you aren’t comfortable doing so.  You don’t have to go out and party every night.  And you certainly don’t have to hang out with other co=workers on your nights off.  If you are into theatre, music, cooking, or any other hobbies that others wouldn’t think a dancer would be normally interested in, get out there and do those things that make you happy.  Never let someone else’s opinion stop you from being happy or achieving what you dream of.  You are not what you do for a living.  You are who and what you feel inside.  Really, a “Successful Stripper” could be simply defined as being the best you can be at WORK, and leaving that aspect of your life at the door as soon as the night is over.

What defines a “Successful Stripper” to you?  Post up and share with us what your thoughts are in the comment section below.  Also, if you are looking to be the BEST you can be at work, we’ve written an e-book called “The Successful Stripper” that outlines what really defines a successful exotic dancer and what you do to be one yourself.  To learn more, click here.

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10.  Excerpt from “How to Make Money at the Gentlemen’s Club” – Part 3 -

Yesterday we took a look at a bit of Chapter 6 in section 2 titled, “How to Lead the Customer to a Sale”.   Today we look at a portion of Chapter 1 Section 3, “Saving Your Money”.

Do you find that you are short money all the time even though you go home with lots of it every night after work?  Do you struggle to pay your bills on time because you don’t have enough saved at the time?  If so you are not alone in this country.  Most households in America struggle to keep up with their obligations.  They either borrow too much or they have a serious problem saving what they make.  This section will cover how you can learn to save at least some of what you make.  To Read More Click Here…

9.   How to Get Started in Exotic Dancing -

There are MANY things you will need and must prepare for before beginning a career in exotic dancing.  The first at foremost thing to consider is if this is what you want to do for a career choice.  It can be a very expensive one for you, if you do not take into consideration what goes into dancing.  Dancers clothes and shoes are not cheap, and if you do not buy good quality items, you will be replacing them more often then you should.  But before we go more in depth in that area, stop by a local club or two that you’ve heard good things about, and see what takes place there.  To Read More Click Here…

8.  The single biggest thing standing between you and success in Stripping is… -

Do you ever wonder what stands in the way of you and success at work.  There are other girls at work that make it seem so easy and get tons of dances with customers.  They consistantly go home with large sums of cash all the time.  What’s stopping you from going home everynite with buckets of money?  The answer is YOU.

At the end of the day, you are the only thing standing between you and success.  Success and winning is an attitudeSuccess isn’t measured in money, power, or cars.  Success is a  frame of mind, so much that if you think about this scenario you’ll understand why.  To Read More Click Here…

7.  Exotic Dancer E-BOOKS! -

JoshAndChandra.com now has two e-book resources for helping Exotic Dancers in their profession.  Our first e-book is titled “How to Make More Money in the Gentlemen’s Club” and the second one is titled the “The Successful Stripper.”  Both e-books cover completely different material as far as how to make money approach customers, be a top earner, and ultimately how to manage your incomeNow for the first time ever, you can own both of these e-books for the price of one!

When you order “The Successful Stripper,” you will also receive a free copy of “How to Make More Money in the Gentlemen’s Club.” To Read More Click Here…

6.  Excert From Our Hot Selling E-Book “How to Make Money at the Gentlemen’s Club!” – Part 1

This week only, we are running brief excerts from our E-Book titled “How to Make Money at the Gentlemen’s Club.”  Also this week we will be offering the for only $19.97, a savings of over $30 from the full retail price.  Thi offer ends Saturday, April 19 at midnite.  If you like what you read, please consider ordering the entire book as it is packed full of knowledge that can benefit the dancer just starting or the 10 year vet looking to make even more bank.  But enough of that, here’s a brief portion of chapter 3, “Reasons Customers Choose Certain Girls”

1.   Attraction. Attraction comes from many factors. Skin color, Hair color, hair length, Height, Weight, Clothing. About as many factors that are unchangeable at any given moment, there are those things that are changeable. What you wear, how you do your hair, makeup, and how you smell, are all things that influence those around you and are things you decide on.  To Read More Click Here…

5.  One of the Biggest Money Makers for Any Dancer, Including You -

Paging thru a recent magazine, I was reminded of a great sales technique that fits in perfectly with the dancing profession.  It’s something that anyone from the Veteran dancer to the girl who just tried on her first pair of stilleto’s can incorporate.  And unlike a new costume or a new fragrance, it won’t cost you a dime.  Here’s what it is.

First, think about what all the great money makers in this profession have posessed that you’ve ever come into contact with.  If you’re coming up blank, I’ll help you out.  To Read More Click Here…

4.  Making Money as an Exotic Dancer During a Recession -

Times are tough out there right now for everyone.  The stock markets in the toilet, unemployment is the highest it’s been in years, and there are less customers walking thru the doors of the clubs.  But that doesn’t mean there still isn’t money to be made being a dancer.  Our ebook “How to Make More Money at the Gentlemen’s Club” is just what you need to boost your earning potential even during tough times.  Click the link to read more and start making what you never thought was possible. 

3.  Top 10 Mistakes All Strippers Make -

There are certain things all dancers do wrong, whether it is only one from this list or many, it can impact how much you make a nite, or over the course of the week.  If you can eliminate all of these things on this list, you will be ahead of your peers, and will be on your way to making more money.

1.  Thinking every girl is going to be your friend.  In this business you learn that the only person you can trust 100% is yourself.  If everyone thinks you are ignorant and trusting, they will take advantage of you and take everything they can from you.  To Read More Click Here…

2.  5 Habits of Highly Successful Exotic Dancers -

Here are 5 qualities that are ALL shared by successful dancers.  If you can incorporate these habits into your lifestyle and work ethic, you will be joining the elite of the elite.  Your income will increase dramatically.  And your perspective about life itself will change.  It will take a bit of work to integrate these traits into your life but you will be well rewarded by doing so.

1.  Be Proactive!  Being proactive is one of two responses to any given situation.  You can be proactive or reactive.   To Read More Click Here…

And the #1 post is:

How to Be a Successful Stripper or Exotic Dancer

With this first post we are going to analyze what it takes to not only just be an exotic dancer but a very successful one at that.  There are many things that aren’t apparant for most when they start in this business and many girls who have been dancing for years still are missing out on making even more money by not fully looking at all the elements it takes to be the best they can be.  We are going to cover everything we can, day by day, because this isn’t something learned in one sitting.  It takes practice, patience, studying (others) and learning from someone who’s successfully mastered this business for years.  To Read More Click Here…

And that’s the top 10 most viewed posts on JoshAndChandra.com for 2008.  We hope you have learned a lot from our site and hope you have been equally profitable from doing so.  We wish you prosperous 2009 and hope you continue to visit us for even more knowledge on how you can be the Elite Dancer we know you can be!

Josh & Chandra

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Also!  As we mentioned yesterday about our new store functioning inside our site JoshAndChandra.com, we’ve lowered the price on ALL of our E-Books again!  If you haven’t had a chance to do so yest, check them out now.  You will find valuable information only available here on how you can take your income at the club to new levels.  And now you can own BOTH exotic dancing e-books for around $25.  You check them out here.

We wish you all a safe and profitable weekend.  Make the most of the time you have before the holidays.

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One other change you may have already noticed is a couple new site sponsors in the right sidebar of the site.  We are happy to welcome Hustler Lingerie, Stocking Depot, and Gotham City Online.  These are all fantastic places to find new clothes for work OR daily life.  Check them often to find amazing deals you can’t find anywhere else. 

We also have a couple other fantastic ideas in the works for you here at JoshAndChandra.com and are working hard to impliment them for you ASAP.  We want to be your #1 source for everything you need as an Exotic Dancer.  Let us know what you’d like to see here on JoshAndChandra.com!  Leave a comment below.  We are here for just you.

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After only 10 days of releasing our newest and most complete guide to becoming a top earning exotic dancer, our e-book The Successful Stripper has already sold more copies then our original effort, How to Make More Money at the Gentlemen’s Club.  To celebrate our milestone, we are now permanently reducing the price to only $17.95!  But that’s not all, you will also receive a copy of our original e-book “How to Make More Money at the Gentlemen’s Club” as an added bonus.  We hope all of our readers take this opportunity to purchase this package of two outstanding manuals that total over 80 pages of invaluable information on how to clean up in ANY strip club.

If you haven’t heard about our e-books yet, here is what you get when you order:

• The 16 Characteristics of Successful Strippers
•  The Successful Strippers Toolkit
  Introduction to the Successful Stripper Toolkit
  Branding Yourself
  Making First Contact with a Customer
  Leading the Customer to the Sale
  Sales Pitch: Remember Less is More
  Say Something Completely Different
  Turning No into Yes
  Closing the Sale
  Pumping Up Individual Sales to Make More
  Setting Goals for Yourself at Work
  Keeping Your Energy Level High at Work
• The Successful Strippers Guide to Money Management
  Utilizing the Money You Make Every Night
  Saving Income After Debts are Paid
  Investing Part of Your Discretionary Income
• The Technical Aspects of Exotic Dancing
  The Ten Biggest Myths About Exotic Dancers
  5 Reasons Why Clients Choose Certain Dancers
  Why Staying at One Club Works
  Good Exotic Dancer Etiquette
  Knowing Your Workplace
  Time Management
  Creativity and Diversity while Dancing
  Using Your Talents at Work
  Clothing Choice and Types
  Drinking and Drugs
  Psychology of an Exotic Dancer
• Making Money as an Exotic Dancer
  The 3 Most Important Skills of Making Money at Work
  How to Act “As If
  Clients
  How to Work the Room
  The Introduction
  How to lead the Customer to a Sale
  Ways to Persuade
  Getting the Customer to Finally Buy the Dance
  Selling Dances in a Smaller Club
  How to Deal with Customers that Procrastinate
• Managing Your Hard Earned Money
  Monitoring Your Spending
  Saving Money
  Investing Your Money

You get over 50 Chapters of knowledge on how to make bank every night you show up at the club to work.  You will not find ANY other resource online or off that offers the valuable information for such a low price.  You’ve read the posts on our blog at JoshAndChandra.com.  Now read the rest of the information that we don’t put on our blog for a reason.  Because not every dancer can be a Successful Stripper.  It takes initiative, desire, and determination.  And buying our e-book package at such a low price is only your first step.  Once you have the knowledge, the rest is up to YOU!

To purchase The Successful Stripper and receive your bonus e-book How to Make More Money at the Gentlemen’s Club, click here now.

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Selling dances to customers involves a great deal of convincing sometimes; but before you even start trying to convince the customer of anything, let’s check and see if YOU are convinced of everything.  First off, you really do have to believe in what you are doing.  If you don’t want to be at work, feel guilty, or are there just for a good time, you don’t have what it takes and you do NOT believe in what you do. 

Next, you need to believe in yourself in a variety of ways.  If you are constantly asking questions like “Am I too fat?” or “Am I too old?” then you probably don’t have what it takes to confidently go ask a stranger for their money.

The other way you need to believe in yourself is your abilities.  As the old high school gym motto goes, “If you think you can’t, you’re right!”  As corny as it seems, it is filled with truth.  You do need to fully believe in your capabilities and what you can accomplish.  You must realize you CAN do whatever you set your mind too.  It likely will not happen overnight, but with practice and perseverence, you do have the opportunity to achieve success.

Ultimately, self confidence – belief in yourself and what you do – is what determines where you end up in life.  Don’t think you’ll amount to much or think you’re not worth much?  If you do, you will sabotage your own future to fulfill you’re current outlook of yourself.  But if you think you are worth a million bucks, you’ll start dressing like it and figuring out exactly how you can be worth a million dollars.  Confidence is key. 

You can find other great money making ideas like this in our new e-book The Successful Stripper, on sale now and available for immediate download after purchase.  We’ve created a 37 page book jam packed with info on how you too can become a top earning Successful Stripper.  You can read more about our new e-book here.

Also, as an added bonus for new readers, we are including a free copy of our original e-book “How to Make More Money in the Gentlemen’s Club” with the purchase of The Successful Stripper.  You will be provided a link to download our 40+ page guide on how you too can learn the ways to banking in any Gentlemen’s club around the world.  And you receive it for Free with your paid download of The Successful Stripper.

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First, you have to have confidence in yourself when trying this approach.  You have to be able to be convincing to the customer also.  After you’ve worked on those two things, you can try this method.  Here it is.

Every time you successfully sell a private dance, you must never assume the customer wants only one.  Rather, you must sell them in a way that you are assuming they want multiple dances from you.  This is done by informing the customer the price PER DANCE on the way back to the couch or VIP room.  Let them know once you are in there that you will keep dancing for them until they say they can’t take anymore.  This isn’t a deceptive style of selling, especially since you are letting the customer know up front what’s going on.

After the first song is over, whisper in their ear if they want you to keep going.  DO NOT stop dancing for them as you do this!  In fact, be even more seductive and sexy as you ask this and make them want to keep going.  When they say “Yes, keep going,”  let them know you will keep going until they say stop.  After 3 or 4 more songs, let them know how many songs you have done and ask if they want to keep going again.  This is a very easy way to get 4 or 5 dances out of almost every customer you get in the couch or VIP room.  After all, getting a customer back in the couch room can be difficult enough at times.  Don’t let the money slip through your fingers after you’ve done the hard part of getting them in there.

This tactic takes some practice to get it down successfully, but once you have you’ll discover your earnings doubling or even tripling from what you were making before trying this.  This method and others like it are easily implimented into your nightly routine.  You can find other great money making ideas like this in our new e-book The Successful Stripper, on sale now and available for immediate download after purchase.  We’ve created a 37 page book jam packed with info on how you too can become a top earning Successful Stripper.  You can read more about our new e-book here.

Also, as an added bonus for new readers, we are including a free copy of our original e-book “How to Make More Money in the Gentlemen’s Club” with the purchase of The Successful Stripper.  You will be provided a link to download our 40+ page guide on how you too can learn the ways to banking in any Gentlemen’s club around the world.  And you receive it for Free with your paid download of The Successful Stripper.

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