10.  Excerpt from “How to Make Money at the Gentlemen’s Club” – Part 3 -

Yesterday we took a look at a bit of Chapter 6 in section 2 titled, “How to Lead the Customer to a Sale”.   Today we look at a portion of Chapter 1 Section 3, “Saving Your Money”.

Do you find that you are short money all the time even though you go home with lots of it every night after work?  Do you struggle to pay your bills on time because you don’t have enough saved at the time?  If so you are not alone in this country.  Most households in America struggle to keep up with their obligations.  They either borrow too much or they have a serious problem saving what they make.  This section will cover how you can learn to save at least some of what you make.  To Read More Click Here…

9.   How to Get Started in Exotic Dancing -

There are MANY things you will need and must prepare for before beginning a career in exotic dancing.  The first at foremost thing to consider is if this is what you want to do for a career choice.  It can be a very expensive one for you, if you do not take into consideration what goes into dancing.  Dancers clothes and shoes are not cheap, and if you do not buy good quality items, you will be replacing them more often then you should.  But before we go more in depth in that area, stop by a local club or two that you’ve heard good things about, and see what takes place there.  To Read More Click Here…

8.  The single biggest thing standing between you and success in Stripping is… -

Do you ever wonder what stands in the way of you and success at work.  There are other girls at work that make it seem so easy and get tons of dances with customers.  They consistantly go home with large sums of cash all the time.  What’s stopping you from going home everynite with buckets of money?  The answer is YOU.

At the end of the day, you are the only thing standing between you and success.  Success and winning is an attitudeSuccess isn’t measured in money, power, or cars.  Success is a  frame of mind, so much that if you think about this scenario you’ll understand why.  To Read More Click Here…

7.  Exotic Dancer E-BOOKS! -

JoshAndChandra.com now has two e-book resources for helping Exotic Dancers in their profession.  Our first e-book is titled “How to Make More Money in the Gentlemen’s Club” and the second one is titled the “The Successful Stripper.”  Both e-books cover completely different material as far as how to make money approach customers, be a top earner, and ultimately how to manage your incomeNow for the first time ever, you can own both of these e-books for the price of one!

When you order “The Successful Stripper,” you will also receive a free copy of “How to Make More Money in the Gentlemen’s Club.” To Read More Click Here…

6.  Excert From Our Hot Selling E-Book “How to Make Money at the Gentlemen’s Club!” – Part 1

This week only, we are running brief excerts from our E-Book titled “How to Make Money at the Gentlemen’s Club.”  Also this week we will be offering the for only $19.97, a savings of over $30 from the full retail price.  Thi offer ends Saturday, April 19 at midnite.  If you like what you read, please consider ordering the entire book as it is packed full of knowledge that can benefit the dancer just starting or the 10 year vet looking to make even more bank.  But enough of that, here’s a brief portion of chapter 3, “Reasons Customers Choose Certain Girls”

1.   Attraction. Attraction comes from many factors. Skin color, Hair color, hair length, Height, Weight, Clothing. About as many factors that are unchangeable at any given moment, there are those things that are changeable. What you wear, how you do your hair, makeup, and how you smell, are all things that influence those around you and are things you decide on.  To Read More Click Here…

5.  One of the Biggest Money Makers for Any Dancer, Including You -

Paging thru a recent magazine, I was reminded of a great sales technique that fits in perfectly with the dancing profession.  It’s something that anyone from the Veteran dancer to the girl who just tried on her first pair of stilleto’s can incorporate.  And unlike a new costume or a new fragrance, it won’t cost you a dime.  Here’s what it is.

First, think about what all the great money makers in this profession have posessed that you’ve ever come into contact with.  If you’re coming up blank, I’ll help you out.  To Read More Click Here…

4.  Making Money as an Exotic Dancer During a Recession -

Times are tough out there right now for everyone.  The stock markets in the toilet, unemployment is the highest it’s been in years, and there are less customers walking thru the doors of the clubs.  But that doesn’t mean there still isn’t money to be made being a dancer.  Our ebook “How to Make More Money at the Gentlemen’s Club” is just what you need to boost your earning potential even during tough times.  Click the link to read more and start making what you never thought was possible. 

3.  Top 10 Mistakes All Strippers Make -

There are certain things all dancers do wrong, whether it is only one from this list or many, it can impact how much you make a nite, or over the course of the week.  If you can eliminate all of these things on this list, you will be ahead of your peers, and will be on your way to making more money.

1.  Thinking every girl is going to be your friend.  In this business you learn that the only person you can trust 100% is yourself.  If everyone thinks you are ignorant and trusting, they will take advantage of you and take everything they can from you.  To Read More Click Here…

2.  5 Habits of Highly Successful Exotic Dancers -

Here are 5 qualities that are ALL shared by successful dancers.  If you can incorporate these habits into your lifestyle and work ethic, you will be joining the elite of the elite.  Your income will increase dramatically.  And your perspective about life itself will change.  It will take a bit of work to integrate these traits into your life but you will be well rewarded by doing so.

1.  Be Proactive!  Being proactive is one of two responses to any given situation.  You can be proactive or reactive.   To Read More Click Here…

And the #1 post is:

How to Be a Successful Stripper or Exotic Dancer

With this first post we are going to analyze what it takes to not only just be an exotic dancer but a very successful one at that.  There are many things that aren’t apparant for most when they start in this business and many girls who have been dancing for years still are missing out on making even more money by not fully looking at all the elements it takes to be the best they can be.  We are going to cover everything we can, day by day, because this isn’t something learned in one sitting.  It takes practice, patience, studying (others) and learning from someone who’s successfully mastered this business for years.  To Read More Click Here…

And that’s the top 10 most viewed posts on JoshAndChandra.com for 2008.  We hope you have learned a lot from our site and hope you have been equally profitable from doing so.  We wish you prosperous 2009 and hope you continue to visit us for even more knowledge on how you can be the Elite Dancer we know you can be!

Josh & Chandra

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One other change you may have already noticed is a couple new site sponsors in the right sidebar of the site.  We are happy to welcome Hustler Lingerie, Stocking Depot, and Gotham City Online.  These are all fantastic places to find new clothes for work OR daily life.  Check them often to find amazing deals you can’t find anywhere else. 

We also have a couple other fantastic ideas in the works for you here at JoshAndChandra.com and are working hard to impliment them for you ASAP.  We want to be your #1 source for everything you need as an Exotic Dancer.  Let us know what you’d like to see here on JoshAndChandra.com!  Leave a comment below.  We are here for just you.

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Do you find that you are short money all the time even though you go home with lots of it every night after work?  Do you struggle to pay your bills on time because you don’t have enough saved at the time?  If so you are not alone in this country.  Most households in America struggle to keep up with their obligations.  They either borrow too much or they have a serious problem saving what they make.  This section will cover how you can learn to save at least some of what you make.

After you have set your budget that you created above, you will have an idea of what you have to set aside and when.  Now after work each night, set aside a certain amount for your bills, in their own marked envelope that designates what the money is going for.  This will eliminate you being short when it comes time to pay that particular item.  After you have met your weekly obligations, you should then set aside some money that you intend to save.  If you don’t currently have a savings account at a local bank you are comfortable with, open one.  Before you go to work everyday deposit 25% of what you have extra for yourself to spend that hasn’t been earmarked for bills.  Your savings account will grow quickly and you will be pleased with your self when you see what you’ve saved on your own.

Again this is only a hint of the wealth of information our 27 chapter e-book covers.  You won’t be left wondering what you should be doing the next time you go to work at the club. 

About the Authors:  We are two people who have worked in this industry for over 10 years combined.  We know what it takes to be successful in this business and will help you either get started in this field or give your career a jump start on how to make even more then what you are now.  Josh has worked in a Gentlemen’s Club setting for over 7 years doing many of the jobs that are necessary including bouncing, bartending and managing.  He now successfully owns and operates his own club in the midwest.  Chandra has danced for 3 years and accumulated more knowledge then most girls do in 15 years of dancing.  She regularily brought home $400 on the slowest nights, and over $1200 on some of her best nights working in small clubs where she thrived the most.  She averaged in between those two numbers working in bigger clubs in the city, where competition was a bit more prevalent.If you would like to order a copy now, please CLICK HERE!

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After you have made your introduction to a prospective customer and have built a certain level of trust, you now must focus on guiding the customer to spending their hard earned money. Depending on the level of trust built, you can offer to take them into the private room to talk more while you dance for them. Make it feel like you want to do this for them, not that you are just after their money. This requires some tact, and you must utilize your communication skills, focusing on their reactions, their facial expressions, and what they are plainly speaking to you. Always be persuasive and convincing. Make them believe that YOU WANT to dance for THEM, not just dancing FOR them. There is a difference. You have to make them feel important and special. If you haven’t noticed by now, this is something that is repeated over and over in the E-Book. You have to make them think that you want to be sexy for them, that YOU want to turn them on, that YOU are the right one to fulfill their fantasy for the night. Asking them to spend $20 to $150 for a private dance in the couch room or VIP room won’t make them feel special. They’ll wonder what they’ll be getting for their money. Let them know that before hand. Not by describing exactly what you do in the private room, but by letting them know that they will continue to have your full attention, that you want somewhere more private to dance for them and to talk. That you will make them feel special in not so many words. Always be sexy and always give the customer the attention they want.

Again this is only a hint of the wealth of information our 27 chapter e-book covers.  You won’t be left wondering what you should be doing the next time you go to work at the club.  Tomorrow we will look at what things you should be doing to plan for your future with your income from dancing.

About the Authors:  We are two people who have worked in this industry for over 10 years combined.  We know what it takes to be successful in this business and will help you either get started in this field or give your career a jump start on how to make even more then what you are now.  Josh has worked in a Gentlemen’s Club setting for over 7 years doing many of the jobs that are necessary including bouncing, bartending and managing.  He now successfully owns and operates his own club in the midwest.  Chandra has danced for 3 years and accumulated more knowledge then most girls do in 15 years of dancing.  She regularily brought home $400 on the slowest nights, and over $1200 on some of her best nights working in small clubs where she thrived the most.  She averaged in between those two numbers working in bigger clubs in the city, where competition was a bit more prevalent.If you would like to order a copy now, please CLICK HERE! 

Josh and Chandra

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1.    Attraction.  Attraction comes from many factors.  Skin color, Hair color, hair length, Height, Weight, Clothing.  About as many factors that are unchangeable at any given moment, there are those things that are changeable.  What you wear, how you do your hair, makeup, and how you smell, are all things that influence those around you and are things you decide on.  It is up to you to make sure everything is flawless.  Too much makeup, bad perfume, oily hair or skin, any one of these things can destroy attraction once the customer gets close to you and ruin any chance of making lots of money off of them.

2.    Personality/Attitude.  This is one of the main reasons customers will keep coming back over and over again to spend their money on the same dancer.  Your personality and attitude towards the customer will either make them feel comfortable with you, or you will turn them off, and look else where for satisfaction.  Also your attitude about work itself will show and the customer will know if you really want to be at work or if you are only going through the motions.

3.    Listening.  Girls who make a lot of money at work are not the loud boisterous ones, but the ones who are able to listen to the customer and not only carry a conversation with them, but also listen what they want from the girls, or life, and think of ways to accommodate them.  Listening is paramount to having a customer feel like they are important and will have them coming back to the same girl over and over.

4.    The Girl Doesn’t Act Like She Just Wants Money.  Men in strip clubs, and everyone in general, don’t want to feel like they are being sucked dry by some dancer.  They want to feel like they actually got something for their money, whether it is them feeling like they are important, sexy, attractive, or just had some VERY good entertainment for the night, they want value.  If they feel they have received that, they will come back for more of the same.

5.    Approachable/Appearance.  This has to do partly with the girl’s attitude, but there is more to it then that.  If a guy feels like that a girl is unapproachable because she is a bitch, or in a bad mood that night, he will avoid her and any negative confrontation with her.  He might receive the same treatment at home, why would he pay money to have it on his night out?  The girls who are always smiling and happy, not obnoxious, are far more attractive and make much more money then the lonely stripper sulking at the bar because she isn’t making any money.

This is only a taste of the 27 chapter e-book, that covers everything from what you should be doing before you go to work to how to handle extra money you make after work.  You won’t be left wondering what you should be doing the next time you go to work at the club.  You will KNOW what it takes to make bank and to continue doing so.  About the Authors:  We are two people who have worked in this industry for over 10 years combined.  We know what it takes to be successful in this business and will help you either get started in this field or give your career a jump start on how to make even more then what you are now.  Josh has worked in a Gentlemen’s Club setting for over 7 years doing many of the jobs that are necessary including bouncing, bartending and managing.  He now successfully owns and operates his own club in the midwest.  Chandra has danced for 3 years and accumulated more knowledge then most girls do in 15 years of dancing.  She regularily brought home $400 on the slowest nights, and over $1200 on some of her best nights working in small clubs where she thrived the most.  She averaged in between those two numbers working in bigger clubs in the city, where competition was a bit more prevalent.If you would like to order a copy now, please CLICK HERE!

Josh and Chandra

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