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		<title>Dealing with Female Customers at Work</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[This topic comes up more frequently depending on the club you are working at.  Some clubs are more strict on allowing female customers in, while some clubs impose zero restrictions.  Regardless, there seems to occasionally be a female customer or two that is rude and obnoxious to the dancers.  How you decide to deal with it, [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This topic comes up more frequently depending on the club you are working at.  Some clubs are more strict on allowing female customers in, while some clubs impose zero restrictions.  Regardless, there seems to occasionally be a female customer or two that is rude and obnoxious to the dancers.  How you decide to deal with it, will determine if you go home with all the money you should be.</p>
<p>When a rude female customer, or even group of them, is in the club, it can be EXTREMELY difficult to not walk over and lay one across the side of her head with your 7&#8243; heel, but you need to realize that won&#8217;t win you any more private dances.  Customers already know they are being rediculous, and they didn&#8217;t come to see you blow up on a girl patron.  The male customers came to see you and all the other dancers that are working that night.  So, carry on as business as usual as far as making your money.</p>
<p>However, DO say something to your bouncers and to the manager on duty.  Do NOT scream at them for letting it go on.  They might be oblivious to what&#8217;s going on (we know it&#8217;s hard to believe but not everyone is a master at observing what&#8217;s REALLY going on at the front lines).  Rather, let them know that the rude female customers are making it very hard for you AND the other girls to do your jobs, and that it is potentially causing the club to lose money as well.  When they hear it phrased in that fashion, they should take a stronger interest in taking care of the problem at hand and either tell the female custies to settle down or escort them out of the club.</p>
<p>After you&#8217;ve told the staff of the problem, go back to work.  You need to have some of the thickest skin around to even be in this business, and letting a couple or even a few rude customers, regardless of gender, ruin what could have potentially been a great night is unforgivable.  Continue doing what you are supposed to do and that&#8217;s sell dances.  Customers pay for expensive drinks and door fees just to be around you and to have fun with the strippers, not witness a brawl that should be televised on some low life reality show.  Be the bigger person overall, it makes you look soo much more appealing to the real customers, and they might buy more dances from you to help them escape the drama on the floor. </p>
<p>Female customers that are out of control need to be handled the same way you should be handling ANY negative influence in your life.  Find a way to eliminate it as quickly as possible.  Going over to the girl customers yourself will yield very little except for name calling, screaming, and possibly a fight.  You&#8217;ll get in trouble with management, and the real customers there won&#8217;t find you any more attractive then you were before the confrontation, more then likely they&#8217;ll stay away from you.  INSTEAD, go to the club staff that will rectify the situation ASAP.  Never add to a problem, just do what it takes to solve it immediately.</p>
<p>In the end though, we realize there are clubs that let things like this go on all the time.  If the club staff where you work does not help your situation out and make it the best work environment for you and the other dancers on a consistent basis, you probably should be looking for a different club to be working at anyway.  If you would like to learn more on how to bank every night at work, regardless of the problems that may arise, check out our new e-book package that will teach you how to confront and tackle any issue in the club and still walk home with wads of cash.  You can learn more <a href="http://joshandchandra.com/exoticad" target="_blank">HERE</a>.</p>
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		<title>One of the Easiest Ways to Make More Money Stripping</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[When you go to work, you always hope that nite will be better then the last.  Hoping it will be better isn&#8217;t going to make it better, however.  Only you have the power to make it that way, and we&#8217;re going to share one of the best kept secrets on how to consistently bank BIG [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When you go to work, you always hope that nite will be better then the last.  Hoping it will be better isn&#8217;t going to make it better, however.  Only you have the power to make it that way, and we&#8217;re going to share one of the best kept secrets on how to consistently bank BIG everynite you go to work.  This method is used by many top earners, including Chandra, to make several hundred dollars even on the slowest nites.</p>
<p>First, you have to have confidence in yourself when trying this approach.  You have to be able to be convincing to the customer also.  After you&#8217;ve worked on those two things, you can try this method.  Here it is.</p>
<p>Every time you successfully sell a private dance, you must never assume the customer wants only one.  Rather, you must sell them in a way that you are assuming they want multiple dances from you.  This is done by informing the customer the price PER DANCE on the way back to the couch or VIP room.  Let them know once you are in there that you will keep dancing for them until they say they can&#8217;t take anymore.  This isn&#8217;t a deceptive style of selling, especially since you are letting the customer know up front what&#8217;s going on.</p>
<p>After the first song is over, whisper in their ear if they want you to keep going.  DO NOT stop dancing for them as you do this!  In fact, be even more seductive and sexy as you ask this and make them want to keep going.  When they say &#8220;Yes, keep going,&#8221;  let them know you will keep going until they say stop.  After 3 or 4 more songs, let them know how many songs you have done and ask if they want to keep going again.  This is a very easy way to get 4 or 5 dances out of almost every customer you get in the couch or VIP room.  After all, getting a customer back in the couch room can be difficult enough at times.  Don&#8217;t let the money slip through your fingers after you&#8217;ve done the hard part of getting them in there.</p>
<p>This tactic takes some practice to get it down successfully, but once you have you&#8217;ll discover your earnings doubling or even tripling from what you were making before trying this.  This method and others like it are easily implimented into your nightly routine.  You can find other great money making ideas like this in our new e-book <a href="http://joshandchandra.com/products-page/" target="_blank">The Successful Stripper</a>, on sale now and available for immediate download after purchase.  We&#8217;ve created a 37 page book jam packed with info on how you too can become a top earning Successful Stripper.  You can read more about our new e-book <a href="http://joshandchandra.com/products-page/" target="_blank">here</a>.</p>
<p>Also, as an added bonus for new readers, we are including a free copy of our original e-book &#8220;How to Make More Money in the Gentlemen&#8217;s Club&#8221; with the purchase of <a href="http://joshandchandra.com/products-page/" target="_blank">The Successful Stripper</a>.  You will be provided a link to download our 40+ page guide on how you too can learn the ways to banking in any Gentlemen&#8217;s club around the world.  And you receive it for Free with your paid download of <a href="http://joshandchandra.com/products-page/" target="_blank">The Successful Stripper</a>.</p>
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