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		<title>May Update from Josh &amp; Chandra</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s been a few weeks since we&#8217;ve had a chance to post, but we can&#8217;t wait any longer to let you know what we&#8217;ve been up to. The past 6 weeks we have been secretly working on a brand new sister site to this one here on JoshAndChandra.com.  It&#8217;s a members only site, and dedicated [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s been a few weeks since we&#8217;ve had a chance to post, but we can&#8217;t wait any longer to let you know what we&#8217;ve been up to.</p>
<p>The past 6 weeks we have been secretly working on a brand new sister site to this one here on JoshAndChandra.com.  It&#8217;s a members only site, and dedicated exclusively for dancers who want the absolute best information available on becoming the Most Successful Dancer in their club.</p>
<p>No topic is taboo, no information is with-held, and nothing else out there compares to what we&#8217;ve compiled already.  And we&#8217;re not even finished building it yet!</p>
<p>So what <em>IS</em> in this members only site?  Well, to start with it&#8217;s not really just a membership site for dancers to gain knowledge.  It&#8217;s more like Stripper University.  We have created a Six Week Course detailing <strong>everything</strong> a dancer needs to know.  From how a strip club works, to building self-confidence techniques, to how to use technology today to better market yourself to potential customers.  We&#8217;ve covered How to effectively manage time in the club, what customers find attractive, and how to ask for that private dance the right way.</p>
<p>But that&#8217;s not even close to what we&#8217;ve created for you.  We also have the newest selling techniques based solely on the customer&#8217;s personality type.  We&#8217;ve broken it down into 4 diffferent categories for you to easily understand and even easier to recognize them when you see it.  This technique was first introduced by a famous psychologist whose work now heavily influences marketers and salesforces across the globe.  And we&#8217;re showing you how to use it for exotic dancing now.</p>
<p>But wait, there&#8217;s more.  We&#8217;ve included pages and pages of lessons on health, dieting, and exercise to keep you in shape (what&#8217;s school like without p.e. and health class, right?).  There&#8217;s also a dedicated section for finance and how can start putting your money to work for you.  We even show you some easy ways to start a business online.  Like we said, there&#8217;s no holding back in there.  And to prove it, we even go behind the scenes and break down how we generate income online; including the steps we took to create this new membership site and how you can do the exact same thing!</p>
<p>There&#8217;s still more.  We are partnering with a VERY well known pole dancing instrutor to bring you pole dancing instructional videos.  We can&#8217;t even tell you how excited we are about this.  We love pole dancing (if you can&#8217;t tell by our posts) and this new series of videos takes you through the steps to learn moves on the pole.</p>
<p>You see, what we&#8217;ve created is so unique, nothing can even begin to compare to it.  How do we know?  We checked.  We wanted to make this a true Stripper University.  We made sure we created the content to flow and build on each preceding lesson, just like it would in a real educational setting.</p>
<p>The other thing that makes this so unique, is that after you pay the membership fee, you are NOT billed any more.  There are other membership sites out there that make you pay month after month for the same content to belong to their site.  Not ours. </p>
<p>Even after you complete the 6 week training course (something else that makes ours different as you&#8217;ll know when you are done) you graduate and become an alumni.  All alumni are welcome to return and retake the course for free and to continue to post on the <em>member&#8217;s only forum</em>.</p>
<p>Really, we amazed ourselves with the quality and quantity of content that the new site contains.  If you took out all of the health and finance lessons and just left the dancer training, you would still have enough information to fill a 180 page book (at 12pt font, double spaced).  How do we know?  We checked it out ourselves.</p>
<p>Everything we offer is available from day one at no extra charge.  We don&#8217;t bill you for the finance information or how to start your own home based business.  You don&#8217;t pay a penny extra for the health and dieting courses.  It&#8217;s all at your disposal.  Always.</p>
<p>We have to apologize.  If you can&#8217;t tell, we are really excited about this.  There really isn&#8217;t anything like this anywhere.  We believe in truly offering the highest quality material and an unbelievably affordable price, and this new membership site isn&#8217;t any different.</p>
<p>So when can you sign up?  Good question, we knew you couldn&#8217;t wait for this part either.  We are looking to start the first 6 week course around July 1st.  That&#8217;s about a month away.  But there is some bad news.</p>
<p>We are only going to be offering registration for <strong>7 Days</strong>.  After the 7 days is up, we lock the doors.  But there is some good news, too.  We are offering our first training class a 50% discount to those who sign-up.  And you still receive lifetime membership for signing up.</p>
<p>If you are interested, fill out the preregistration box below.  This isn&#8217;t the official sign-up, so you aren&#8217;t obligated to pay or buy anything.  This is to keep you updated for when the doors open so you don&#8217;t miss out on this one-of-a-kind opportunity.</p>
<p>Oh, and one more thing.  We are offering a 100% money back guarantee.  If you don&#8217;t find our training course helpful or you feel like you didn&#8217;t learn anything, we will refund you 100% of your paid membership fee.  We have taken the risk out of joining for you.  Try and get that offer from ANY of the other dancer membership sites.  Oops, you can&#8217;t.</p>
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		<title>Contagious Diseases at Work</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Talking to a lot of dancers at work this last weekend made me realize that there are a lot of comunicable diseases that you could catch just from working with girls who don&#8217;t take care of themselves. We had a girl quit this last week because her staph infection turned into MRSA. She didn&#8217;t treat [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Talking to a lot of dancers at work this last weekend made me realize that there are a lot of comunicable diseases that you could catch just from working with girls who don&#8217;t take care of themselves. We had a girl quit this last week because her staph infection turned into MRSA. She didn&#8217;t treat her staff because she didn&#8217;t know what it was. A couple of the other girls also came down with staph, and it&#8217;s not hard to figure out where they acquired it.  A strip club is one of the dirtiest places in the world. Naked women rubbing on the same pole, stage and couch dance chairs can be unsanitary, and after factoring in the range of clientele that comes through the door every nite, you can only imagine what&#8217;s actually floating around in the club.</p>
<p>It can be even worse when the girls you work with are dirty. I worked in a club for a year and a new girl showed up and told me at the end of the week that it had been her third time infected with chlamydia! She had waited a whole week working with us to say something. It was gross to think that any of the girls could have caught it by touching a pole after she touched herself or she went to the bathroom and didin&#8217;t wash her hands. You can also get a yeast infection from having an unclean pole touch your vagina. </p>
<p>People are dirty.  All I&#8217;m saying is buy some hand sanitizer and coat yourself in it.  I do that every time I get off stage.  I work in a big club though. Forty girls a night on nine poles. All I&#8217;m saying is being is be weary, wash your hands, and SANITIZE!  It could keep you from catching something, spending money on treating it, and possibly even missing work if it&#8217;s really bad.  Until next time, stay clean!</p>
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		<title>The Best of 2008 From JoshAndChandra.com</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[2008 was an interesting year for everyone.  The housing and financial markets imploded, the first black president was elected in the United States, gas prices plummeted from their high, the first &#8220;pregnant man&#8221;, and JoshAndChandra.com went live to help all Exotic Dancers make money.  While some of these things are irrelevant, we think we mentioned [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>2008 was an interesting year for everyone.  The housing and financial markets imploded, the first black president was elected in the United States, gas prices plummeted from their high, the first &#8220;pregnant man&#8221;, and JoshAndChandra.com went live to help all Exotic Dancers make money.  While some of these things are irrelevant, we think we mentioned the best last (ok gas being less then half of what it was is freakin amazing).  So to commemorate JoshAndChandra&#8217;s first year in existance, we are going to list the top 10 most read posts here on our blog.  We hope you enjoy them the second time around as much as you did the first time you read them.  <img src='http://thesuccessfulstripper.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><strong>10.  Excerpt from “How to Make Money at the Gentlemen’s Club” &#8211; Part 3 -</strong></p>
<p>Yesterday we took a look at a bit of Chapter 6 in section 2 titled, “How to Lead the Customer to a Sale”.   Today we look at a portion of Chapter 1 Section 3, “Saving Your Money”.</p>
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<p align="left">Do you find that you are short money all the time even though you go home with lots of it every night after work?  Do you struggle to pay your bills on time because you don’t have enough saved at the time?  If so you are not alone in this country.  Most households in America struggle to keep up with their obligations.  They either borrow too much or they have a serious problem saving what they make.  This section will cover how you can learn to save at least some of what you make.  <em><a href="http://joshandchandra.com/2008/04/excerpt-from-%e2%80%9chow-to-make-money-at-the-gentlemen%e2%80%99s-club%e2%80%9d-part-2/" target="_blank">To Read More Click Here&#8230;</a></em></p>
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<p><strong>9.</strong>   <strong>How to Get Started in Exotic Dancing -</strong></p>
<p>There are MANY things you will need and must prepare for before beginning a career in exotic dancing.  The first at foremost thing to consider is if this is what you want to do for a career choice.  It can be a very expensive one for you, if you do not take into consideration what goes into dancing.  Dancers clothes and shoes are not cheap, and if you do not buy good quality items, you will be replacing them more often then you should.  But before we go more in depth in that area, stop by a local club or two that you’ve heard good things about, and see what takes place there.  <a href="http://joshandchandra.com/2008/02/how-to-get-started-in-exotic-dancing/" target="_blank"><em>To Read More Click Here&#8230;</em></a></p>
<p><strong>8.</strong>  <strong>The single biggest thing standing between you and success in Stripping is… -</strong></p>
<p>Do you ever wonder what stands in the way of you and success at work.  There are other girls at work that make it seem so easy and get tons of dances with customers.  They consistantly go home with large sums of cash all the time.  What’s stopping you from going home everynite with buckets of money?  The answer is YOU.</p>
<p>At the end of the day, you are the only thing standing between you and success.  Success and winning is an attitudeSuccess isn’t measured in money, power, or cars.  Success is a  frame of mind, so much that if you think about this scenario you’ll understand why.  <a href="http://joshandchandra.com/2008/03/the-single-biggest-thing-standing-between-you-and-success-in-stripping-is/" target="_blank"><em>To Read More Click Here&#8230;</em></a></p>
<p><strong>7.</strong>  <strong>Exotic Dancer E-BOOKS! -</strong></p>
<p>JoshAndChandra.com now has two e-book resources for helping Exotic Dancers in their profession.  Our first e-book is titled “How to Make More Money in the Gentlemen’s Club” and the second one is titled the “The Successful Stripper.”  Both e-books cover completely different material as far as how to make money approach customers, be a top earner, and ultimately how to manage your incomeNow for the first time ever, you can own both of these e-books for the price of one!</p>
<p>When you order “The Successful Stripper,” you will also receive a free copy of “How to Make More Money in the Gentlemen’s Club.” <a href="http://joshandchandra.com/exotic-dancing-ebook/" target="_blank"><em>To Read More Click Here&#8230;</em></a></p>
<p><strong>6.</strong>  <strong>Excert From Our Hot Selling E-Book “How to Make Money at the Gentlemen’s Club!” &#8211; Part 1</strong></p>
<p>This week only, we are running brief excerts from our E-Book titled “How to Make Money at the Gentlemen’s Club.”  Also this week we will be offering the for only $19.97, a savings of over $30 from the full retail price.  Thi offer ends Saturday, April 19 at midnite.  If you like what you read, please consider ordering the entire book as it is packed full of knowledge that can benefit the dancer just starting or the 10 year vet looking to make even more bank.  But enough of that, here’s a brief portion of chapter 3, “Reasons Customers Choose Certain Girls”</p>
<p>1.   Attraction. Attraction comes from many factors. Skin color, Hair color, hair length, Height, Weight, Clothing. About as many factors that are unchangeable at any given moment, there are those things that are changeable. What you wear, how you do your hair, makeup, and how you smell, are all things that influence those around you and are things you decide on.  <a href="http://joshandchandra.com/2008/04/excert-from-our-hot-selling-e-book-how-to-make-money-at-the-gentlemens-club-part-1/" target="_blank"><em>To Read More Click Here&#8230;</em></a></p>
<p><strong>5.  One of the Biggest Money Makers for Any Dancer, Including You -</strong></p>
<p>Paging thru a recent magazine, I was reminded of a great sales technique that fits in perfectly with the dancing profession.  It’s something that anyone from the Veteran dancer to the girl who just tried on her first pair of stilleto’s can incorporate.  And unlike a new costume or a new fragrance, it won’t cost you a dime.  Here’s what it is.</p>
<p>First, think about what all the great money makers in this profession have posessed that you’ve ever come into contact with.  If you’re coming up blank, I’ll help you out.  <a href="http://joshandchandra.com/2008/08/one-of-the-biggest-money-makers-for-any-dancer-including-you/" target="_blank"><em>To Read More Click Here&#8230;</em></a></p>
<p><strong>4.  Making Money as an Exotic Dancer During a Recession -</strong></p>
<p>Times are tough out there right now for everyone.  The stock markets in the toilet, unemployment is the highest it’s been in years, and there are less customers walking thru the doors of the clubs.  But that doesn’t mean there still isn’t money to be made being a dancer.  Our ebook “<a href="http://joshandchandra.com/ExoticAd.html" target="_blank"><strong><span style="color: #327eb0;">How to Make More Money at the Gentlemen’s Club</span></strong></a>” is just what you need to boost your earning potential even during tough times.  Click the link to read more and start making what you never thought was possible. </p>
<p><strong>3.  Top 10 Mistakes All Strippers Make -</strong></p>
<p>There are certain things all dancers do wrong, whether it is only one from this list or many, it can impact how much you make a nite, or over the course of the week.  If you can eliminate all of these things on this list, you will be ahead of your peers, and will be on your way to making more money.</p>
<p>1.  <strong>Thinking every girl is going to be your friend</strong>.  In this business you learn that the only person you can trust 100% is yourself.  If everyone thinks you are ignorant and trusting, they will take advantage of you and take everything they can from you.  <a href="http://joshandchandra.com/2008/02/top-10-mistakes-all-strippers-make/" target="_blank"><em>To Read More Click Here&#8230;</em></a></p>
<p><strong>2.  5 Habits of Highly Successful Exotic Dancers -</strong></p>
<p>Here are 5 qualities that are ALL shared by successful dancers.  If you can incorporate these habits into your lifestyle and work ethic, you will be joining the elite of the elite.  Your income will increase dramatically.  And your perspective about life itself will change.  It will take a bit of work to integrate these traits into your life but you will be well rewarded by doing so.</p>
<p>1.  Be Proactive!  Being proactive is one of two responses to any given situation.  You can be proactive or reactive.   <a href="http://joshandchandra.com/2008/03/5-habits-of-highly-successful-exotic-dancers/" target="_blank"><em>To Read More Click Here&#8230;</em></a></p>
<p><strong>And the #1 post is:</strong></p>
<p><strong>How to Be a Successful Stripper or Exotic Dancer</strong></p>
<p>With this first post we are going to analyze what it takes to not only just be an exotic dancer but a very successful one at that.  There are many things that aren’t apparant for most when they start in this business and many girls who have been dancing for years still are missing out on making even more money by not fully looking at all the elements it takes to be the best they can be.  We are going to cover everything we can, day by day, because this isn’t something learned in one sitting.  It takes practice, patience, studying (others) and learning from someone who’s successfully mastered this business for years.  <a href="http://joshandchandra.com/2008/02/how-to-be-a-successful-stripper-or-exotic-dancer/" target="_blank"><em>To Read More Click Here&#8230;</em></a></p>
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<p>And that&#8217;s the top 10 most viewed posts on JoshAndChandra.com for 2008.  We hope you have learned a lot from our site and hope you have been equally profitable from doing so.  We wish you prosperous 2009 and hope you continue to visit us for even more knowledge on how you can be the Elite Dancer we know you can be!</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[For the last couple weeks, our posting here on JoshAndChandra has been a little less frequent then normal.  Please don&#8217;t think we&#8217;ve forgetten about you.  Actually we&#8217;ve been hard at work creating a brand new e-book for you to become an even more greater success at work then you already are. The Successful Stripper e-book [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For the last couple weeks, our posting here on JoshAndChandra has been a little less frequent then normal.  Please don&#8217;t think we&#8217;ve forgetten about you.  Actually we&#8217;ve been hard at work creating a brand new e-book for you to become an even more greater success at work then you already are.</p>
<p><em><a href="http://joshandchandra.com/shop/index.php?main_page=product_info&amp;cPath=1&amp;products_id=2" target="_blank">The Successful Stripper</a></em> e-book is now complete and available for <a href="http://joshandchandra.com/shop/index.php?main_page=product_info&amp;cPath=1&amp;products_id=2" target="_blank">download</a>.  And what exactly will you find when you download our new how-to guide?  Well, we&#8217;ll tell you right now.</p>
<p>When we set out to write this completely new and original informative manual, we wanted it to represent the ultimate source for transforming any average exotic dancer into one of the elite in this business.  We believe we&#8217;ve accomplished that by providing you with 16 characteristics that ALL Successful Strippers possess and why you should also.  We also created and included the Successful Strippers Toolkit; a set of guides to dramatically boost your sales ability even with the toughest strip club patrons.  This part of the e-book is invaluable in regards to the sales training you will receive and how it will prepare you to effectively handle any given situation in the sales process at work.  And finally, we&#8217;ve included a continuing section of how to manage your income and put your money to work for you.  We&#8217;ve tied everything together, so in the end after reading <em><a href="http://joshandchandra.com/shop/index.php?main_page=product_info&amp;cPath=1&amp;products_id=2" target="_blank">The Successful Stripper</a></em>, you too will be on the road to creating your own Success!</p>
<p>And as an added bonus to our new readers, if you purchase <em><a href="http://joshandchandra.com/products-page/" target="_blank">The Successful Stripper</a></em> e-book, you will also receive a free copy of our first e-book, &#8220;<em>How to Make More Money in the Gentlemen&#8217;s Club</em>.&#8221;  This is a limited time offer and is our Holiday gift to all of our faithful followers.  We hope you enjoy them both and would like to encourage you to leave your feedback on how our e-books have benefited you at work.  Enjoy!</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Originally posted by the Republican-American on September 3rd, 2008 and can be found here: http://rep-am.com/articles/2008/09/03/news/363236.txt Exotic dancer found unconscious in Waterbury bar dies  WATERBURY — A 21-year-old exotic dancer found unconscious in a bathroom Saturday night at Mr. Happy&#8217;s Cafe, a strip club on Homer Street, died Sunday at Waterbury Hospital, police said. According to [...]
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<p><span class="headline"><strong>Exotic dancer found unconscious in Waterbury bar dies</strong> </span></p>
<div id="storydetail">WATERBURY — A 21-year-old exotic dancer found unconscious in a bathroom Saturday night at Mr. Happy&#8217;s Cafe, a strip club on Homer Street, died Sunday at Waterbury Hospital, police said.</div>
<p>According to Lt. Christopher Corbett, a police spokesman, the woman is a city resident, but he declined to release her name until an autopsy can be completed. The procedure is scheduled for today.</p>
<p>An employee at the club found the woman unconscious, but breathing at about 10:30 p.m., Corbett said. There are no signs of foul play in connection with her death, he added.</p>
<p>&#8220;We are investigating the possibility it was a drug overdose,&#8221; he said.</p>
<p>The woman was hospitalized Saturday after she was found in the bathroom, but died Sunday, he said. Family members have been notified of her death.</p>
<p>The club has been the scene of police and fire calls, including two small fires in 2005 and 2006 that sent customers and scantily clad women into the parking lot.</p>
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<div>It&#8217;s simply not worth the price that some like this fellow young lady paid.  Take care of yourself and each other out there.</div>
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		<title>Dancers and Dogs: How Well They Go Together</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Alot of dancers you see that travel by themselves have dogs. Why? Some girls have dogs for protection, others for companionship. I myself had a dog that was a great companion. Being on the road by myself all the time was lonely and kind of made me stir-crazy. I will admit, when I first got my dog, [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alot of dancers you see that travel by themselves have dogs. Why? Some girls have dogs for protection, others for companionship. I myself had a dog that was a great companion. Being on the road by myself all the time was lonely and kind of made me stir-crazy. I will admit, when I first got my dog, it was alot of work to get her to understand the rules of the hotels and the car. She had more than one accident. If you put the time and the effort into helping them understand want you want from them, they can help you with your needs too. They will become your best friend and someone you can count on to make you smile. If you have issues with safety, I would say that you should get a big dog because bigger dogs are scarier than small breeds.With a doberman pinscher in your car, there aren&#8217;t alot of people that are going to try and steal your stuff. If you&#8217;re looking for a road companion, I would say get a small breed because they are easier to clean up after and usually have great personalities.</p>
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		<title>What You Always Wanted to Know About Stripping, But Didn&#8217;t Know Who to Ask!</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever wondered how some girls pull in so much cash every nite?  That&#8217;s a question many girls ask themselves every night when they go home with a couple hundred dollars and another one goes home with $700.  There is not a simple, single answer to this question.  In fact, what that one girl [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever wondered how some girls pull in so much cash every nite?  That&#8217;s a question many girls ask themselves every night when they go home with a couple hundred dollars and another one goes home with $700.  There is not a simple, single answer to this question.  In fact, what that one girl does from before she walks into the club until the minute she leaves the door to get in her car is what sets her on the road to a full purse of cash.</p>
<p>But what is it that she does so differently?  Chances are everything.  If you watched her from afar the whole night you could pick up one or two things she does differently then all the other girls at the club.  However, there is more going on then what you see.  There is what she says, how she acts, how she spends her time.  She&#8217;s learned through years of experience how to maximize every minute she is there into making lots more money.  Now instead of just watching her, you could go ask her what she does to make so much money, but she will likely give you a brief answer of &#8220;just be friendly.&#8221;  Obviously there is more to it then that. </p>
<p>Now there is a way you can learn everything that the best girls at work already know.  Of course you could sit down and think for days or weeks about what you could do differently to make more at work, but if you do that on your own you forgo the chance to do other things, like spend time with family, shop, take a small vacation, or look for a new home! You now have the opportunity to save time and learn EVERYTHING the successful girls do to make wads of cash EVERY night and be on your way to doing it much quicker then the years it took them to discover it. </p>
<p>Our E-Book titled &#8220;How to Make More Money at the Gentlemen&#8217;s Club&#8221; is everything you need to understanding how you can double, triple, even quadruple what you make at work, EVERY NIGHT!  You&#8217;ll learn how to approach customers, how to get them to buy ton&#8217;s of dances, how to maximize your time, and how to work a packed club.  But there&#8217;s even more!  You&#8217;ll discover what is going on inside the customer&#8217;s mind when you try different approaches and you&#8217;ll understand the psychology of selling dances to even the most stubborn clients.  They are all there for a reason, you just need to know what it takes to get them to spend every dollar on just you!</p>
<p> But that&#8217;s not all.  You&#8217;ll learn what type of outfits and shoes look best on you.  You&#8217;ll discover what hairstyles are best and how to wear your make-up to be the most seductive dancer at the club.  You&#8217;ll understand the mentality it takes to bring home $500 to $1000 a night.  Trust us, it&#8217;s much different then the one you have now if you are only making a couple hundred or even less.  This ebook is SO PACKED with information, even some of the top earning girls could learn more then a few tricks to make even more money at the club!</p>
<p>How much would you pay for the tools you need to make $500 a night dancing?  Would it be worth one nights pay? What about a Weeks pay?  In other fields of employment, managers pay months worth of income for training that will improve employees productivity and earning potential.  But now, for a limited time, you can learn all the skills you need to boost your income potential for less then what you could make in ONE HOUR at work!  Think about that, what do you spend on shoes for work?  They are a tool that helps you make more cash, but they wear out.  What do you spend on outfits?  Same thing, they rip, get stained or fade out.  The thing is the knowledge you gain from reading this exclusive e-book is invaluable in the sense that it never wears out.  It will always help you make more at work, whether it&#8217;s this week or years from now. </p>
<p>But who are the authors of the e-book you are about to purchase?  It is written by the authors of this site, Josh and Chandra, who collectively have worked in the strip club industry for well over ten years and have witnessed all the successes and shortcomings of dancers from today and yesteryear.  Josh served first as a bouncer, then manager, and now owns and operates his own Gentlemen&#8217;s Club here in the midwest.  Chandra is a former exotic dancer who averaged well over $500 nightly working small clubs and banked a grand nightly working clubs in larger cities.  And we&#8217;re not talking Vegas either.  These were all clubs in the midwest.  But the beauty of her knowledge is that patrons of strip clubs all are there for the same reason.  What works in Kansas City works in Miami, Florida.  After having coached and managed several dancers the last couple years, the two decided to take their expertise online and created JoshAndChandra.com!  Now everyone around the country can take advantage of the knowledge these two have amassed and put it to work for themselves.</p>
<p>For more information on this one-of-a-kind manual, click <a title="More E-Book Information!" href="http://joshandchandra.com/shop/index.php?main_page=product_info&#038;cPath=1&#038;products_id=5">Here!</a></p>
<p>To buy your exclusive copy of the e-book, &#8220;How To Make More Money At The Gentlemen&#8217;s Club&#8221; click <a title="How to Make More Money at the Gentlemen's Club!" href="http://joshandchandra.com/shop/index.php?main_page=product_info&#038;cPath=1&#038;products_id=5" target="_blank">HERE!</a></p>
<p> Josh and Chandra</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dancers have a meaningful relationship?  some people imagine this as impossible, and many dancers are basically single, but there are those who are married and who have been with the same person for a number of years.  Having a meaningful relationship with someone outside this business can be very difficult.  emotions and jealousy can run [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dancers have a meaningful relationship?  some people imagine this as impossible, and many dancers are basically single, but there are those who are married and who have been with the same person for a number of years.  Having a meaningful relationship with someone outside this business can be very difficult.  emotions and jealousy can run high and usually end up destroying the bond the two shared early in the courtship. </p>
<p>Understanding the emotions from both sides is paramount if there is any chance for the relationship to survive.  we&#8217;ll outline the reasoning and thought process from the dancers perspective and the other person here now.</p>
<p><strong>The Partners Perspective<br />
</strong>If the partner was a customer at one point, he or she may have had some initial fatuation or attraction to the dancer, whether it was physical or on a personal level.  They don&#8217;t always think ahead of what having a meaningful relationship may entail.  The emotional aspect at first can keep things hot and heavy, where the strong desire to just spend time together and get to know each other over rides the feelings that will soon come.  If the partner comes into work, he or she may soon develop feelings of jealousy over the different parts of the dancers job.  MANY different people will come in and the dancer puts herself into very close situations, wearing very little if anything.  The dancers body is on display for everyone, and the partner may feel like that the dancer is never really &#8220;just their own.&#8221;  They have to share the dancer in a sense with the world, because their naked body is on display all the time.  This jealousy can be disastrous if not dealt with positively.</p>
<p>Another part of the dancers life is her regulars.  They may buy her gifts or shower her with A LOT of cash.  The partner may have feelings of inadequacy to contribute to the relationship financially as the dancer may possibly be making way more then the partner.  These feelings of inadequacy can lead to other emotions, distrust of what she is doing with her regulars, resentment that they make so much more, feeling like they are never equals because of the financial difference.  If the dancer has given her phone number out to customers, it can be even 10x worse as she will be receiving calls at all times of the day; having her regulars asking her to dinners, for dates, etc.  The feeling of distrust grows exponentialy and it usually is more then most can handle.</p>
<p>Another aspect is the hours many dancers work.  They go to work late and come home even later.  If the partner has a regular day job, they may be hard pressed to find meaningful couple time together.  One or the others job may suffer because of the two staying up too late or skipping work to spend time with each other.  Dating or living with a dancer can be very taxing.  And if you add all of the feelings associated with doing so just listed, it&#8217;s no wonder many dancers don&#8217;t have very long relationships. </p>
<p><strong>The dancer&#8217;s perspective</strong><br />
The dancer&#8217;s job is her livlihood.  She may not have time to always go out and meet new people outside of work.  If she does, the stigma of being a stripper usually intrigues a few at first, but their intentions of having a meaningful relationship with her are minimal at best.  If she meets a customer she finds intriguing, she may pursue the person until a relationship develops.  If the partner develops the feelings outlined above, she may distance herself a bit because this is what she was doing for a job when the two met.  The partner knows this, but they also know that is how they met and may worry she will find someone else better next week at work.  If the partner asks the dancer to quit their job, this leads usually to one of two things.  First a huge fight about the conflict of interests of her working as a dancer.  Next the partner will either agree with it for a bit longer if the girl decides to keep working as a stripper, or she will quit dancing for her new love.  This may seem reasonable at first glance, but what happens shortly later isn&#8217;t.  Resentment from the one giving the concessions will build and build until the relationship itself nears critical conditions.  Unless something miraculous happens, the relationship will end there.</p>
<p>The dancer while in a relationship will also be constantly bombarded with interest from adoring customers.  She has a potentially large  pool of possible suitors always at her feet.  If she is with someone, she must constantly be drawing the line of what borders on being faithful, what keeps their partner happy, and what they must live with if they make a mistake.  In actuallity, dancers are not much different then the general population as far as having someone being interested in you.  Either at work, a hobby or past time, or even the internet, people are lusting after someone else.  It is just much more front and center for a dancer.  She must make the same decisions everyone faces everyday that is in a committed relationship.  Should they be faithful, and what exactly defines being faithful?  This can be debated very widely and liberally.  But it should be something the couple agrees upon what is acceptable between the two.  Obviously anything the one thinks would hurt themselves if the other did it, should be enough for them to understand that it would hurt the other person.  People can be selfish and uncaring at times in a relationship when it involves personal gratification, and they may think the other won&#8217;t find out, but it&#8217;s still not fair.  And the person doing the wrong has to live with it if they have any conscience at all. </p>
<p>It all comes down to whether the dancer has strong morals or if they worry only about themselves.  The main thing is if they want the relationship to successfully work, they have to understand the partners perspective, and the same goes for the partner.  They must realize it is a job, not like many others, but it is still a job.  Trust can be difficult to attain, especially in the early parts of the relationship, but it will grow if both partners intend to work any issues or difficulties that arise. </p>
<p>The relationship outlined above is much like any other relationship.  Communication of what both partners want and expect, trust, and the ability to comprimise on some issues is paramount to the survival of the commitment. </p>
<p>Do you have any suggestions on what helps your relationships from teetering on the brink of disaster?  If so, please share them and they may be added to a future article!</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever set a goal for yourself at work, to make so much that nite, only to find half way thru the nite you are no where near where you want to be?  This is a frequent problem for many dancers, which can easily lead to having your ego crushed for the nite, and [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever set a goal for yourself at work, to make so much that nite, only to find half way thru the nite you are no where near where you want to be?  This is a frequent problem for many dancers, which can easily lead to having your ego crushed for the nite, and can really depress your potential for making money the rest of the nite.  But there is a few ways to fix this.</p>
<p>The most important part of making money in any line of work, including exotic dancing, is setting goals.  They have to be achievable and realistic, and at the same time they have to be something you work hard for otherwise you are just short changing yourself.  Once you set a goal for the nite, you have to figure out how best to attain it.  And I am going to tell you how to do just that. </p>
<p>1.  <strong>Be to work on time!</strong>  This is important not only to keep your job and to keep the club manager happy, but if you aren&#8217;t on time you are missing out on opportunity.  The people who show up to strip clubs early are there for one of two reasons.  They are there to either belly up at the bar and get cheap drinks, or they are there to spend money on the girls and unwind after work.  And the ones there early to spend money on girls are sometimes the better spenders of the nite.  If you are to work on time you can be the one to catch these good tippers, instead of another girl taking what could be yours.</p>
<p>2.  <strong>Not only be to work on time, but be ready to work when you get there!</strong>  This means you will have to get your hair and make-up ready before you arrive at work, and you will have to start getting ready for work earlier, but knowing that there is money already waiting for you at the club should be the incentive you need to achieve your goal for the nite.</p>
<p>3.  <strong>Pay attention to the people tipping early in the nite!</strong>  Once you find the few people in early looking to spend money, give them your full attention.  Don&#8217;t spend time sitting at the bar.  Don&#8217;t waste time in the dressing room chatting it up with the other girls or on the phone.  Sit with the customers and give them the care they want and need to part with their hard earned money.  There may only be 2 or 3 spenders early in the nite, and they may have to leave soon to get home to the wife and kids, so you will have to hustle, but you will be well rewarded in the end.</p>
<p>Remember that when you set a goal, there are small milestones you will have to reach on the way to your monetary goal for the nite.  If you set your goal at $400 for the day, and there are 3 to 4 tipping customers in during the early hours, you should easily be able to make $100 off of them.  And you will be $100 closer to your goal for the nite with only a couple hours of work.  You won&#8217;t be playing catch up, you won&#8217;t be getting discouraged, and your confidence in your ability will increase leading you to make even more the rest of the nite.  Always take advantage of any opportunity presented to you!</p>
<p>Is there anything you do that boosts your cash flow during the early parts of the nite?  Share them here!</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you ever wonder what stands in the way of you and success at work.  There are other girls at work that make it seem so easy and get tons of dances with customers.  They consistantly go home with large sums of cash all the time.  What&#8217;s stopping you from going home everynite with buckets of [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you ever wonder what stands in the way of you and success at work.  There are other girls at work that make it seem so easy and get tons of dances with customers.  They consistantly go home with large sums of cash all the time.  What&#8217;s stopping you from going home everynite with buckets of money?  The answer is YOU.</p>
<p>At the end of the day, you are the only thing standing between you and success.  Success and winning is an attitude.  Success isn&#8217;t measured in money, power, or cars.  Success is a  frame of mind, so much that if you think about this scenario you&#8217;ll understand why.  If you took away all of Donald Trump&#8217;s money and property, in a few years he would have it all back.  Now if you gave someone $10 million dollars, like they just won the powerball lottery, in a few years they would likely have lost it all.  There&#8217;s a reason.  One takes responsibility for their actions, and accepts failure.  The other has all kinds of reasons why they lost the money, the wife spent too much, i gave some to my family and friends, that 2nd house in South Miami looked like such a good deal.  You see, sometimes failure is a bump on the road to success.  Not everyone sees it like that, and they are the ones who continually blame other things or people for their failures.  You have to have heard of the saying, &#8220;you&#8217;re gonna have to break a few eggs if you&#8217;re gonna make an omelet.&#8221;  That&#8217;s exactly true, some bad things will happen on the way to success, but you learn from those situations, not sit there and stew about them. </p>
<p>Now if you are currently one of those people who like to lay blame on everyone else, you are going to have to change something about your self.  Your attitude!  If you have the attitude of an unsuccessful person, no amount of reading or self analysis is going to make you successful.  You have to be the one wanting to succeed, and get where you want to be.  The moment you change your attitude, opportunity will come to you.  Here are a few points to help you understand why you are where you are.</p>
<p><strong> You have exactly what you want right now.</strong></p>
<p>Making money and lots of it really isn&#8217;t that hard for exotic dancers.  But then why is it only a handful of dancers or maybe even one at a club makes most of the money a nite?  Because most dancers are ok with where they are at in life right now.  They have enough to exist on, to get drunk on, to go buy some new clothes and pay their cell phone bill.  They are happy in their little existance.  If they weren&#8217;t they would do something about it, wouldn&#8217;t they?  If they REALLY wanted something terrible bad, like a new or nicer car, or a big screen t.v. or a much bigger apartment, they would go out and work that much harder until they had the money saved up for it.  Most people wish they had nicer things in life, but if they wanted it bad enough they would go out and make it happen.  Wishing and wanting are two different things.  Understanding the difference is crucial to being successful.  You may wish you had a nicer vehicle like right now, but what exactly are you doing about it to make it happen?</p>
<p><strong>Why?</strong> </p>
<p>Now figuring out what is a good enough reason to go out and work harder and smarter, this is what will motivate you to make things happen.  Most people stay in the lifestyle they are in because they don&#8217;t have a good enough reason to leave it.  They are comfortable in their existance, and while everyone wishes they were rich, most will settle for what they have now.  Why do you want to be successful?  Why do you want that nice car, why do you want a bigger bank account?  The reason you haven&#8217;t been successful in the past isn&#8217;t totally because you wished too much, it&#8217;s because the reason you had for being successful wasn&#8217;t a good enough one to get you going.</p>
<p>Remember, at the end of the nite, you are the only thing standing between going home with $100 or with $450.  Where you want to be and where you wish to be are two different things, and you alone are standing in the way of those two things.  What is your reason why?  Figure this out and you&#8217;ll be earning what you want, and starting owning the things you want.  Stop wishing and start asking yourself &#8220;why?&#8221;</p>
<p>Josh and Chandra</p>
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