All of the selling strategies I and my closest friends use, I go into detail in our e-books “How to Make More Money in the Gentlemen’s Club V2.0″ and our newest one “The Successful Stripper.”  You should never walk up to a customer and ask “Do you wanna dance?”, ESPECIALLY when it is slow.  You have the perfect opportunity on slow nights to turn a couple customers into your nite’s paycheck.  If you would like to learn more on how you can learn to bring home bank on even the slowest of night’s, check out our new package e-book deal.  You get both of our dancer e-books plus our dieting e-book for only $19.97.  A great and small investment considering the return you will get when you begin applying all the techniques found in our products.  To read more, visit here.  To order, click here.

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First, there’s two words in the phrase “Successful Stripper.”  The first one is “successful.”  What makes someone a success?  Like we mentioned above, is it having lots of material things?  Or is it something different?  That’s something everyone has to determine for themselves, but we can tell you what it means to us.  Someone who is a success has mastered or accomplished something.  The things a stripper can accomplish are numerous, but some of the more difficult things to master is making a lot of money on a consistent basis, finding balance between work and their personal life, and staying focused on why they go to work and what they are there to do when they get there.  This criteria doesn’t necessarily apply to just exotic dancers, those qualities are great to have no matter what profession you are in.  There are several things that could fall into the category of being successful, but in the stripping business, it can be very easy to be led astray.  Staying the course in itself could be considered being successful for a dancer. 

The other part of the term we are looking at is the word “Stripper.”  We look at this point specifically because we wanted to make the note that you are a stripper at work.  It is NOT what defines you outside of work, although some parts of society may try and classify you otherwise.  Keep your integrity outside of work by being yourself.  Don’t do things outside of work because some of your co-workers are doing it, or because you think you are less then the average person because of your occupation.  You are a person.  The stigma of being a dancer can be very unfair, but that doesn’t mean you should conform to what others would expect of a stripper outside of work.  You don’t need to dress provacative if you aren’t comfortable doing so.  You don’t have to go out and party every night.  And you certainly don’t have to hang out with other co=workers on your nights off.  If you are into theatre, music, cooking, or any other hobbies that others wouldn’t think a dancer would be normally interested in, get out there and do those things that make you happy.  Never let someone else’s opinion stop you from being happy or achieving what you dream of.  You are not what you do for a living.  You are who and what you feel inside.  Really, a “Successful Stripper” could be simply defined as being the best you can be at WORK, and leaving that aspect of your life at the door as soon as the night is over.

What defines a “Successful Stripper” to you?  Post up and share with us what your thoughts are in the comment section below.  Also, if you are looking to be the BEST you can be at work, we’ve written an e-book called “The Successful Stripper” that outlines what really defines a successful exotic dancer and what you do to be one yourself.  To learn more, click here.

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10.  Excerpt from “How to Make Money at the Gentlemen’s Club” – Part 3 -

Yesterday we took a look at a bit of Chapter 6 in section 2 titled, “How to Lead the Customer to a Sale”.   Today we look at a portion of Chapter 1 Section 3, “Saving Your Money”.

Do you find that you are short money all the time even though you go home with lots of it every night after work?  Do you struggle to pay your bills on time because you don’t have enough saved at the time?  If so you are not alone in this country.  Most households in America struggle to keep up with their obligations.  They either borrow too much or they have a serious problem saving what they make.  This section will cover how you can learn to save at least some of what you make.  To Read More Click Here…

9.   How to Get Started in Exotic Dancing -

There are MANY things you will need and must prepare for before beginning a career in exotic dancing.  The first at foremost thing to consider is if this is what you want to do for a career choice.  It can be a very expensive one for you, if you do not take into consideration what goes into dancing.  Dancers clothes and shoes are not cheap, and if you do not buy good quality items, you will be replacing them more often then you should.  But before we go more in depth in that area, stop by a local club or two that you’ve heard good things about, and see what takes place there.  To Read More Click Here…

8.  The single biggest thing standing between you and success in Stripping is… -

Do you ever wonder what stands in the way of you and success at work.  There are other girls at work that make it seem so easy and get tons of dances with customers.  They consistantly go home with large sums of cash all the time.  What’s stopping you from going home everynite with buckets of money?  The answer is YOU.

At the end of the day, you are the only thing standing between you and success.  Success and winning is an attitudeSuccess isn’t measured in money, power, or cars.  Success is a  frame of mind, so much that if you think about this scenario you’ll understand why.  To Read More Click Here…

7.  Exotic Dancer E-BOOKS! -

JoshAndChandra.com now has two e-book resources for helping Exotic Dancers in their profession.  Our first e-book is titled “How to Make More Money in the Gentlemen’s Club” and the second one is titled the “The Successful Stripper.”  Both e-books cover completely different material as far as how to make money approach customers, be a top earner, and ultimately how to manage your incomeNow for the first time ever, you can own both of these e-books for the price of one!

When you order “The Successful Stripper,” you will also receive a free copy of “How to Make More Money in the Gentlemen’s Club.” To Read More Click Here…

6.  Excert From Our Hot Selling E-Book “How to Make Money at the Gentlemen’s Club!” – Part 1

This week only, we are running brief excerts from our E-Book titled “How to Make Money at the Gentlemen’s Club.”  Also this week we will be offering the for only $19.97, a savings of over $30 from the full retail price.  Thi offer ends Saturday, April 19 at midnite.  If you like what you read, please consider ordering the entire book as it is packed full of knowledge that can benefit the dancer just starting or the 10 year vet looking to make even more bank.  But enough of that, here’s a brief portion of chapter 3, “Reasons Customers Choose Certain Girls”

1.   Attraction. Attraction comes from many factors. Skin color, Hair color, hair length, Height, Weight, Clothing. About as many factors that are unchangeable at any given moment, there are those things that are changeable. What you wear, how you do your hair, makeup, and how you smell, are all things that influence those around you and are things you decide on.  To Read More Click Here…

5.  One of the Biggest Money Makers for Any Dancer, Including You -

Paging thru a recent magazine, I was reminded of a great sales technique that fits in perfectly with the dancing profession.  It’s something that anyone from the Veteran dancer to the girl who just tried on her first pair of stilleto’s can incorporate.  And unlike a new costume or a new fragrance, it won’t cost you a dime.  Here’s what it is.

First, think about what all the great money makers in this profession have posessed that you’ve ever come into contact with.  If you’re coming up blank, I’ll help you out.  To Read More Click Here…

4.  Making Money as an Exotic Dancer During a Recession -

Times are tough out there right now for everyone.  The stock markets in the toilet, unemployment is the highest it’s been in years, and there are less customers walking thru the doors of the clubs.  But that doesn’t mean there still isn’t money to be made being a dancer.  Our ebook “How to Make More Money at the Gentlemen’s Club” is just what you need to boost your earning potential even during tough times.  Click the link to read more and start making what you never thought was possible. 

3.  Top 10 Mistakes All Strippers Make -

There are certain things all dancers do wrong, whether it is only one from this list or many, it can impact how much you make a nite, or over the course of the week.  If you can eliminate all of these things on this list, you will be ahead of your peers, and will be on your way to making more money.

1.  Thinking every girl is going to be your friend.  In this business you learn that the only person you can trust 100% is yourself.  If everyone thinks you are ignorant and trusting, they will take advantage of you and take everything they can from you.  To Read More Click Here…

2.  5 Habits of Highly Successful Exotic Dancers -

Here are 5 qualities that are ALL shared by successful dancers.  If you can incorporate these habits into your lifestyle and work ethic, you will be joining the elite of the elite.  Your income will increase dramatically.  And your perspective about life itself will change.  It will take a bit of work to integrate these traits into your life but you will be well rewarded by doing so.

1.  Be Proactive!  Being proactive is one of two responses to any given situation.  You can be proactive or reactive.   To Read More Click Here…

And the #1 post is:

How to Be a Successful Stripper or Exotic Dancer

With this first post we are going to analyze what it takes to not only just be an exotic dancer but a very successful one at that.  There are many things that aren’t apparant for most when they start in this business and many girls who have been dancing for years still are missing out on making even more money by not fully looking at all the elements it takes to be the best they can be.  We are going to cover everything we can, day by day, because this isn’t something learned in one sitting.  It takes practice, patience, studying (others) and learning from someone who’s successfully mastered this business for years.  To Read More Click Here…

And that’s the top 10 most viewed posts on JoshAndChandra.com for 2008.  We hope you have learned a lot from our site and hope you have been equally profitable from doing so.  We wish you prosperous 2009 and hope you continue to visit us for even more knowledge on how you can be the Elite Dancer we know you can be!

Josh & Chandra

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Also!  As we mentioned yesterday about our new store functioning inside our site JoshAndChandra.com, we’ve lowered the price on ALL of our E-Books again!  If you haven’t had a chance to do so yest, check them out now.  You will find valuable information only available here on how you can take your income at the club to new levels.  And now you can own BOTH exotic dancing e-books for around $25.  You check them out here.

We wish you all a safe and profitable weekend.  Make the most of the time you have before the holidays.

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One other change you may have already noticed is a couple new site sponsors in the right sidebar of the site.  We are happy to welcome Hustler Lingerie, Stocking Depot, and Gotham City Online.  These are all fantastic places to find new clothes for work OR daily life.  Check them often to find amazing deals you can’t find anywhere else. 

We also have a couple other fantastic ideas in the works for you here at JoshAndChandra.com and are working hard to impliment them for you ASAP.  We want to be your #1 source for everything you need as an Exotic Dancer.  Let us know what you’d like to see here on JoshAndChandra.com!  Leave a comment below.  We are here for just you.

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The first reason why this girl doesn’t ever make any money is because of her general demeanor.  Looking pissed off or like you really do NOT want to be there comes through in your facial expressions.  Guys are in a sense spending their money on an experience, and who in their right mind would want the experience of getting a dance from a disgruntled stripper?  If you answered, “Nobody” then you understand why you can’t ever do this at work.  You must ALWAYS give the appearance that you are happy, in a good mood, and generally excited about being there.  While this is likely far from the truth sometimes, you still must make it LOOK that way to everyone.

The second reason why she doesn’t make any money is because even if she was sitting by herself with a great big smile on her face, she’s not doing anything.  Guys might see 5 other girls going around working the tables and going back to the private dance rooms.  They see other people’s experience in action and can judge who or what they want from what’s in front of their face.  The girl who is in high demand must be for a reason.  The girl who is off by herself must have something wrong with her, so they rule her out. 

You can now see why this is so counter productive to sit by yourself or to not go and work the floor.  Success breeds more success.  And doing nothing will yield you exactly that.

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After only 10 days of releasing our newest and most complete guide to becoming a top earning exotic dancer, our e-book The Successful Stripper has already sold more copies then our original effort, How to Make More Money at the Gentlemen’s Club.  To celebrate our milestone, we are now permanently reducing the price to only $17.95!  But that’s not all, you will also receive a copy of our original e-book “How to Make More Money at the Gentlemen’s Club” as an added bonus.  We hope all of our readers take this opportunity to purchase this package of two outstanding manuals that total over 80 pages of invaluable information on how to clean up in ANY strip club.

If you haven’t heard about our e-books yet, here is what you get when you order:

• The 16 Characteristics of Successful Strippers
•  The Successful Strippers Toolkit
  Introduction to the Successful Stripper Toolkit
  Branding Yourself
  Making First Contact with a Customer
  Leading the Customer to the Sale
  Sales Pitch: Remember Less is More
  Say Something Completely Different
  Turning No into Yes
  Closing the Sale
  Pumping Up Individual Sales to Make More
  Setting Goals for Yourself at Work
  Keeping Your Energy Level High at Work
• The Successful Strippers Guide to Money Management
  Utilizing the Money You Make Every Night
  Saving Income After Debts are Paid
  Investing Part of Your Discretionary Income
• The Technical Aspects of Exotic Dancing
  The Ten Biggest Myths About Exotic Dancers
  5 Reasons Why Clients Choose Certain Dancers
  Why Staying at One Club Works
  Good Exotic Dancer Etiquette
  Knowing Your Workplace
  Time Management
  Creativity and Diversity while Dancing
  Using Your Talents at Work
  Clothing Choice and Types
  Drinking and Drugs
  Psychology of an Exotic Dancer
• Making Money as an Exotic Dancer
  The 3 Most Important Skills of Making Money at Work
  How to Act “As If
  Clients
  How to Work the Room
  The Introduction
  How to lead the Customer to a Sale
  Ways to Persuade
  Getting the Customer to Finally Buy the Dance
  Selling Dances in a Smaller Club
  How to Deal with Customers that Procrastinate
• Managing Your Hard Earned Money
  Monitoring Your Spending
  Saving Money
  Investing Your Money

You get over 50 Chapters of knowledge on how to make bank every night you show up at the club to work.  You will not find ANY other resource online or off that offers the valuable information for such a low price.  You’ve read the posts on our blog at JoshAndChandra.com.  Now read the rest of the information that we don’t put on our blog for a reason.  Because not every dancer can be a Successful Stripper.  It takes initiative, desire, and determination.  And buying our e-book package at such a low price is only your first step.  Once you have the knowledge, the rest is up to YOU!

To purchase The Successful Stripper and receive your bonus e-book How to Make More Money at the Gentlemen’s Club, click here now.

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Selling dances to customers involves a great deal of convincing sometimes; but before you even start trying to convince the customer of anything, let’s check and see if YOU are convinced of everything.  First off, you really do have to believe in what you are doing.  If you don’t want to be at work, feel guilty, or are there just for a good time, you don’t have what it takes and you do NOT believe in what you do. 

Next, you need to believe in yourself in a variety of ways.  If you are constantly asking questions like “Am I too fat?” or “Am I too old?” then you probably don’t have what it takes to confidently go ask a stranger for their money.

The other way you need to believe in yourself is your abilities.  As the old high school gym motto goes, “If you think you can’t, you’re right!”  As corny as it seems, it is filled with truth.  You do need to fully believe in your capabilities and what you can accomplish.  You must realize you CAN do whatever you set your mind too.  It likely will not happen overnight, but with practice and perseverence, you do have the opportunity to achieve success.

Ultimately, self confidence – belief in yourself and what you do – is what determines where you end up in life.  Don’t think you’ll amount to much or think you’re not worth much?  If you do, you will sabotage your own future to fulfill you’re current outlook of yourself.  But if you think you are worth a million bucks, you’ll start dressing like it and figuring out exactly how you can be worth a million dollars.  Confidence is key. 

You can find other great money making ideas like this in our new e-book The Successful Stripper, on sale now and available for immediate download after purchase.  We’ve created a 37 page book jam packed with info on how you too can become a top earning Successful Stripper.  You can read more about our new e-book here.

Also, as an added bonus for new readers, we are including a free copy of our original e-book “How to Make More Money in the Gentlemen’s Club” with the purchase of The Successful Stripper.  You will be provided a link to download our 40+ page guide on how you too can learn the ways to banking in any Gentlemen’s club around the world.  And you receive it for Free with your paid download of The Successful Stripper.

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First, you have to have confidence in yourself when trying this approach.  You have to be able to be convincing to the customer also.  After you’ve worked on those two things, you can try this method.  Here it is.

Every time you successfully sell a private dance, you must never assume the customer wants only one.  Rather, you must sell them in a way that you are assuming they want multiple dances from you.  This is done by informing the customer the price PER DANCE on the way back to the couch or VIP room.  Let them know once you are in there that you will keep dancing for them until they say they can’t take anymore.  This isn’t a deceptive style of selling, especially since you are letting the customer know up front what’s going on.

After the first song is over, whisper in their ear if they want you to keep going.  DO NOT stop dancing for them as you do this!  In fact, be even more seductive and sexy as you ask this and make them want to keep going.  When they say “Yes, keep going,”  let them know you will keep going until they say stop.  After 3 or 4 more songs, let them know how many songs you have done and ask if they want to keep going again.  This is a very easy way to get 4 or 5 dances out of almost every customer you get in the couch or VIP room.  After all, getting a customer back in the couch room can be difficult enough at times.  Don’t let the money slip through your fingers after you’ve done the hard part of getting them in there.

This tactic takes some practice to get it down successfully, but once you have you’ll discover your earnings doubling or even tripling from what you were making before trying this.  This method and others like it are easily implimented into your nightly routine.  You can find other great money making ideas like this in our new e-book The Successful Stripper, on sale now and available for immediate download after purchase.  We’ve created a 37 page book jam packed with info on how you too can become a top earning Successful Stripper.  You can read more about our new e-book here.

Also, as an added bonus for new readers, we are including a free copy of our original e-book “How to Make More Money in the Gentlemen’s Club” with the purchase of The Successful Stripper.  You will be provided a link to download our 40+ page guide on how you too can learn the ways to banking in any Gentlemen’s club around the world.  And you receive it for Free with your paid download of The Successful Stripper.

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